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writes:My girlfriend that I'm still with cheated on me about a year ago and we have been fighting more and more now. She cheated on me with her friend "lets call her the Bitch" that's a girl and her boyfriend and now my GF can't understand why I don't want her to hang out with them any more. Am I asking too much? I let her know I didn't want her really drinking with them because of things her friend were doing before that night. I told my GF that it was going to happen and it did. She told me the next day that she cheated and she said she was so sorry and she said she didn't want to and only did because she was so drunk and couldn't stop it. What do I do? The bitch bf is out of town and she went out drinking and slept in bed with her and when she got up the bitch was rubbing the back of her upperleg, I mean what the fuck! How can I be okay with it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2009): She does not sound remorseful. She knew what drinking too much alcohol would do. She didn't take the steps to prevent anything from happening. Now, she is not taking the steps needed to earn your trust back. I think you're wasting your time. It may be difficult, but you should move on. There is better out there.
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reader, MissKin  +, writes (23 March 2009):
 you're not supposed to be okay with it. I don't think she's worth the agro if she's pulling stunts like this. I think you should move on - i also think it's within your right to ask her not to see them anymore. It is harsh, but if you can't trust her with them, and she wants you to trust her, then she should be willing to be understanding and give a little. It sounds like a raw deal to me. you could do better. x
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2009): tell her to decide what she wants to do - and to think of your feelings when she does it. if she cant or wont then you have your answer.
Star.x.
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