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*lgardner1
writes:I have this guy friend who I have been friends with a couple of years. Throughout our friendship, we’ve flirted here and there but nothing more. However, he always, without fail will ask about my dating life. I’ve dating a few guys but nothing serious, which is what I would tell my guy friend. He always seemed happy with my answers each time. Every few months he asks about my sex life too, which I find odd. I do not know if he is genuinely curious or if he is into me in some way?
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reader, Dionee'  +, writes (3 April 2018):
 Personally, I'm not comfortable with my guy friends knowing the intimate details of my life. They're friends for a reason and there's a reason they're in the friendzone (whatever it may be). When I get asked this type of question, I usually respond with,"Not your business bro", mainly because it's invasive of my privacy and I think that friends of the opposite sex should know their place, hence the use of a colloquial synonym for the word friend so that HE knows where he stands; in the friendzone. That's just me though.
My question to you would be, do you, in fact,like him? and if not; why the curiosity surrounding why he asks such questions unless you actually care in some faction? I'm just asking. I want to understand the motivation behind this.
Either way, it's about what is or isn't appropriate for you to answer. If it makes you feel uneasy or uncomfortable; shut it down.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2018): Um...why is he asking you about your sex-life? That's crossing the line into very personal-territory; and it may only mean he likes to hear you over-share the juicy details for reasons you may not really feel too comfortable about!!!
He's not into you, he's into your sex-tales for pornographic reasons!
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reader, Ciar  +, writes (2 April 2018):
 Does he discuss his own dating and sex life as casually as he asks about yours?
Maybe the next time he asks such a question ask him why he's asking. It's a perfectly normal and reasonable question.
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reader, Youcannotbeserious  +, writes (2 April 2018):
 You know this guy relatively well and you don't know the answer to your question, yet you expect total strangers to give you an answer?
I am guessing you are wanting us to say "yes, he is into you". Is this for an ego boost or because you actually want more from your relationship? If you DO want more, then ask him out and see how he responds. If you DON'T, then don't feel pressured into telling him anything you feel uncomfortable sharing with him. Just because he asks the question does not mean you have to give him an answer. You could always ask him "Why do you want to know?" and see what he says.
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