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writes:I like anal sex. Does that make me gay? My wife will not use a dildo on me and I will not have sex with a man. I have used dildos and enjoy them very much.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2010): It doesn't at all, only you'd be able to decide that. Only you can decide if your gay, what you do doesn't make you gay. Homosexuality is genetic, and if you were gay you could have easily found out when you were 16. Hope this was helpful,
P.S Don't Ever let a person tell you that being gay is a choice. Doing "gay" things is a choice. Being gay is just who you are.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAll I can say is "Thanks".
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2010): Gay men have anal sex NOT because they particularly like it and crave it, BUT simply because it is the most practical solution, because they don't have a vagina. So, enjoying anal sex has nothing to do with one's sexual orientation.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2010): The male G-spot is situated about 2 inches up the anus, it is a small chesnut sized lump. No wonder you enjoy it so much haha..it does in no way make you gay it makes you a man who wants an amazing orgasm!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2010): no, this doesnt make you gay at all, my hubby loves me playing with his a-hole but would totally freak if anyone else tried to lol!!!
He says it feels good if I slip in a finger during oral and also if I use a strap-on occasionally it drives him wild! I think the whole "taboo" adds to the pleasure.
You're hurting no-one so enjoy :-)
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reader, AyeshaN60  +, writes (18 August 2010):
 No,Anal sex does not make you gay,Being gay means you are attracted to men, and obviously by your post your not, You just have a preferred style of sex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2010): As Dirtball said the answer is no.
You have to physically, spiritually and emotionally attracted to men, to be gay.
Shoving stuff your butt does not make you gay, it's a woman shoving those things in your butt after all.
Does masturbation make you gay? I mean you are using a man's hand (yours) to get off.
FYI most gay men I've met have never considered nor had anal sex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2010): No, I enjoy anal, I have been married 24 years and my wife has played with my anus only a couple of times. she knows about stimulating the prostate and how much i like it. but she was raised to think any touching of the male anus is gay. but i would never have anything to do with a man. she also thinks masturbation and sex toys should not every happen also.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (18 August 2010):
 No, being attracted to men makes you gay. Are you attracted to men?
FWIW, many straight men enjoy anal play. It's because the prostate is very sensitive and stimulation of it can give us an orgasm. Maybe instead of a dildo, see if your wife will try a finger instead.
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