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30-35,
*ofOPsych11
writes: I am sure that this has been asked time and time again, but I really worry if my boyfriend is telling the truth about my.... vagina. You see it "sticks out" well the lips do. I tell my boyfriend that I need to get it fixed, but he says it is normal and is beautiful. So is he just saying that to get sex? Does anyone else have a "weird" looking vagina? Thanks!
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reader, Boonridge McPhalify +, writes (21 March 2008):
my vagina looks like jack nicholson in batman!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2008): Strewth laura - is that a cauliflower?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2008): Good Grief LazyGuy! Not sure if I want my dinner now.
Gallery No 7. I rest my case about the space slug.
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reader, UofOPsych11 +, writes (18 March 2008):
UofOPsych11 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionEveryone thank you so much! You all have been very helpful!
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reader, LazyGuy +, writes (18 March 2008):
Vulva, not vagina. Difference between the outside and the inside.
NSFW warning, but not porn.
http://www.the-clitoris.com/y/vulva/m_vulva.htm
Is just one of many a gallery on the net (search for vulva, not vagina) showing... well you get the picture.
There are a HUGE assortment out there, if female criminals were in the habbit of going around without pants the police could use it as an even better identifier then fingerprints.
Older women may indeed have stuff hanging out that belongs inside. Childbirth and old age have many untold wonders for you to discover but right now you are almost certainly OK. It is who you are.
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reader, Laura1318 +, writes (18 March 2008):
CANAL 96 AND PETTER HEGRE PRESENT:
THE Y PROJECT COLLECTION
There is a vagina art museum at this link;-
http://www.canal96.com/extra/caviar/pussies/
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2008): My wife's hang down about half an inch. I think they are cute, if you can think of either a vagina or a penis as cute. Believe me, if a guy has gotten far enough to see it, he is so happy that he won't care at all what it looks like. And hey, it is great for keeping one's nose warm.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2008): You are normal.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (17 March 2008):
Look at ears...they look weird when you just look at them separately don't they? Or noses? Body parts are weird when viewed apart but put them all together and there is beauty to behold. You are beautiful and normal.
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reader, Danielepew +, writes (17 March 2008):
Oh, I'll partially disagree with good, great, wise Uncle Phil this time.
Yes, it wouldn't be nice if everyone looked the same. Yes, what upsets you is just normal. You are a little insecure that he won't want you, but he's being honest in saying he does.
I just don't think vaginas look weird.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2008): They all look weird! Someone on here once said that the vagina looks like the mouth of a Space Slug from the Star Wars films.
I think what you're referring to are are what are commonly known as 'Elephants Earholes' or 'Piss Flaps' and are quite normal. Some hang lower than others, but in a man's eyes they are all beautiful, an object of desire, a target to aim for, something to keep the nose warm on a cold winter's night.
Life would be very boring if everyone was identical. I mean, how boring would life be if all women looked like Catherine Jenkins or Linda Lusardi?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2008): Take it from a girl who by the sounds of things has a similar vagina and has gone through what you're going through. I wanted it "fixed" as well. I thought it looked too puffy and that the lips were too big. I used to get really insecure about it and thought it looked "odd" but every time I have told a man I dont think it looks normal, they just look at me baffled. That's because the honest truth is, if a man is down there he is probably too overjoyed and aroused and excited about what will probably happen next, to care what it looks like. I've learnt that my idea of my vagina looking odd is all in my head - my current boyfriend doesn't care, none of my ex's have and I dare say your man doesn't either. Don't let it bother you hunni - all in your head!
Much love,
Karen xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2008): We are all made different. Dont worry about it. Its not something you are going to be looking at every five minutes and if your blokes loves it then why worry, just keep on shagging.
take care
xx
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reader, TELLULAH +, writes (17 March 2008):
Have you ever looked at pictures of penis's, they are all diferent. So it stands to reason that we must all look diferent down there as well.
My ex used to tell me that mine looked like a Beetle bonnet, I think he meant it in a nice way!. Well thats how I took it.
My male friend used to go out with a girl that he said, had a kebab hanging there. I dont think he meant with luttuce and chillies though. Erhhh!
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