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writes:me and my boyfriend want to have anal sex does it hurt?
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reader, ellielaad  +, writes (19 January 2011):
i have had anal sex before and omg it hurt like hell but you get uset to it start of with using a finger to get your muslce relaxs then just start use lube to help if it hurts
hope it goes ok for you
good luck
xxxxx
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2008): make sure you're really aroused and that he uses a lot of lube AND condom, then it doesn't hurt. once you get used to it it feels amazingggg
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2008): make sure you're really aroused and that he uses a lot of lube AND condom, then it doesn't hurt. once you get used to it it feels amazingggg
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2008): Anal sex should not hurt. If it does your doing something wrong, and it is not enough lubrication...
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2007): wow...um it hurts sooo much. my boyfriend was dying to try it so i did it for him. it dint even go all the way in and i was begging for him to take it out. its soo painful and ill never try that again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2007): it doesnt hurt for me, but im a male.. i had an ex gf that use to really enjoy anal sex, i would be behind her and she would push herself onto me to control the inital pain, for her it also hurt less or not at all after vaginal sex. Always use lube!!
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reader, superfly +, writes (11 June 2007):
Also, understand what sex does.....it creates friction...and if the 'hole' the penis is going into is not secreting fluids, inflammation will occur, following by painful tear lesions.However, the vagina and not the anal canal(the guts) doesn't not secrete fluids upon stimulation; otherwise you will 'do-do' wet fluids everytime you use the bathroom.Respect your body organs and locations and live a healthy life....
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reader, superfly +, writes (11 June 2007):
Anal sex is very very unhealthy for the recipient whose receiving it...You could easily damage your anal spinchter muscles-causing an anal prolapes syndrome, and infections are more possible in the anal canal than the vaginal canal, b/c the anal canal has a thin skin layer that tears and bleeds easily, whereas the vaginal canal was made for abrasions and lacks to tear.The anal canal, is full of lymph nodes-T-Cells, and is easy to transfer infections to the body, especially HIV-which loves T-cells for HIV infections...The unhealthy decision is yours...but it will come with a cost!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2007): I would wait to try it when you are very heated and aroused. It doesn't really hurt if there is alot of vaginal teasing. Start with vaginal sex first. If you have sex toys, have him use that in your vagina while he's hitting the back door. I don't perfer it, but its not all that bad. My friends love it.
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (10 June 2007):
 Hey sweetness,
Yeah... yeah, it does hurt. If you're planning on doing this, I'd do a little research first so that you're properly prepared.
I found some decent websites on this topic. Copy and paste the links onto your browser and maybe these'll help.
http://love.ivillage.com/lnssex/sextaboos/topics/0,,4tgx,00.html
http://www.goodvibes.com/Content--Ten-Rules-of-Anal-Sex--id-721
(that one is a great one)
Alright, sweetness. Enjoy yourself and have fun!! Experimenting is always a blast.
xxIndia
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reader, love-him +, writes (10 June 2007):
 yes id say it hurts, but less if u use lube, but if u plan to do it over and over again, u do become slightly used to it so the pain hurts less. but also remember always to use a condom.. kai cos u can get nasty infetions up there expecialy if he cums.. hope i helped, mail me if u wana talk x x x
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2007): provided he gos very very slow and you use a lubrication it doesnt hurt, but there is no natural lub in that area, i find it better to have sex the usual way, and when hes wet from me then go in there.
your prob best to use a lubrication, but i cant tell you how important it is to go very slowly to give you plenty of time to get used to this intense and erotic sensation. its very enjoyable for a woman so long as you do it carfully.
try it !
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reader, in my opinion +, writes (10 June 2007):
 no point in lying, yes it hurts, the tip is to be totally relaxed and comfy about what is going to happen! ive tried it twice and yes both times hurt. make sure u have plenty of a waterbased lube. and be honest, if it hurts and u dont want to carry on make it very clear and tell ur partner.
all the best. have fun.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2007): hey darlin xi am not gunna lie to you. yes it does hurti have done it once and believe me i will never do it again lolfeels like ya constipatedxxx good luck anywaytry anything once x
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