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writes:Last Summer, I pulled a 25 year old chick at a music festival. It was my first sex for about a year and apparently, she enjoyed it too. I'm only 19 and I think the age difference made it even hotter.Since then, I've been a sorta 'booty call' for her. She'll text me or ring me when she's looking for sex and I'll either drive up to hers or get a train, as she lives about 2 hours away from me. I will then spend a day or two with her, even though it's essentially just sex between us. My major concern is that she's very experienced in bed, as she's told me as much, and I am in no way as experienced as her. I worry that I cannot satisfy her as much as she satisfies me. Neither of us are looking for a relationship and this casual sex thing suits us, but she's now 26 and I'm worried that the age difference could make a difference in the end. Feedback and advice would be greatly appreciated!
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reader, happy24birthday  +, writes (11 June 2010):
 Um...what? If she keeps calling then you ARE satisfying her and isn't concerned at all about your supposed lack of experience. You should try not to be as well.
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reader, Carrot2000 +, writes (11 June 2010):
 As a "mature" woman, I would love nothing more than to train up a younger fella. I'd give this woman a high-five if I could!
Enjoy your "lessons" and don't worry about the age difference.
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reader, TimmD +, writes (11 June 2010):
 q1605 is 100% right. I speak from experience here when I say this: This IS your experience. You are in a perfect situation. You get to have a casual, sexual relationship with an older, experienced woman.... and she likes it! You don't have to worry about not being experienced because apparently, she doesn't care. She knows your age and you've been honest about your experience so just relax. There's even a good chance she likes being able to teach you things.
There's only one thing you have to do in this relationship with her and that's ENJOY it. Be eager, and bring the stamina... everything else is her responsibility. Keep it casual, and make it often and you will be plenty experienced for anybody else in the future.
I'd high-five you if I could right now....
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reader, Accountable +, writes (11 June 2010):
 I dont really see why it would become an issue, if neither of you are planning to commit. Don't worry about the lack of experience - if she keeps calling you, you're clearly getting it right! Just enjoy it and don't overthink it, I'd say. Good luck :)
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (11 June 2010):
If you're happy with this, and you know that this suits you, then there is no problem. You may not have the experience, but she continues to call you so you must be doing it right. I'm in a relationship with an older woman that is more casual that it is committed, and she's got more experience than me. But it's a hell of a lot of fun, and we both know where we stand with each other. Our relationship is probably stronger than a lot of others. You're happy, and she's happy and that's all that counts here.
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