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writes:Does a guy know when a woman fakes an orgasm? My lover and I have been together for 4 years and previous to this I was married for 15 years and I have never experienced an orgasm during sex but I cum so quickly with my toy. What do you think is the problem?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2009): why fake your orgasm? rather try communicating with your lover and work on the sexual pleasures.
just to let you know that women are not the only ones faking orgasms. many many many men fake orgasma and ejaculations too. i wonder why since the evidence is clearly not visible when a man supposedly cums.
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reader, superali752  +, writes (26 July 2009):
i dont know why would you fake an orgasm.. if i find out my gf is faking it i'd probably never have sex with her again and go for who actually appreciates my efforts to please her in sex. u should always be honest with your partner, i hate lairs and fakers.i also dont like when they think its men who need to last long.. its actually women who need to achieve it quicker.. if you can't have an orgasm then find out how to... there are lots of ways for a women to achieve an orgasm. everyone is different but most of them from my experience get from the clitoris.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (26 July 2009):
 Well, you might never have experienced an orgasm during sex, but remember this: That means your partners didn't experience a woman having an orgasm.
Sex is a game two (or more) people play and they got to play together to do it right. Human sex is far more complex then just intercourse and we have more reasons to do it then just getting the sperm inside the female.
The male body is different from the female, reminds me of a funny picture. The 10 male pleasure centers and the 10 female ones. The male all point to the penis, the female ones to her entire body.
Men don't naturally know what feels good to women especially when their woman might be very different.
You know you can have an orgasm. So share the information how to make this happen. You don't even have to talk, just pull his hand/mouth to where it is needed and there is no law that says a woman can't assist during intercourse, put your own hands to use.
Unless your partner is simply unwilling you two can learn together to make sex better. But remember, it takes TWO people to do it right.
Does a man know? Depends. If he knows how women orgasm then a bad fake is easily spotted as it involves a bit more then just screaming. But if he doesn't know then most of the signs can be faked. I would say that an experienced woman can fool most guys. Mind you, in a way she is fooling herself. After all, why should the guy do any different if he thinks you had an orgasm?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2009): HI sometimes the same thing happen to me, but me and my man been together for years now and it does not bother him, try to do something different and make suggestions like a threesome or doing it in other places see if this works, good luck.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (26 July 2009):
 There is very good advice for you in the articles, given by women, but the name of the exact article escapes me now. It was written by a great aunt. Something like advice to a young man...
Sometimes you can tell whether a woman fakes an orgasm. I assume, however, that your man is very bad at this. Or, he does not really pay much attention to what he is doing.
You don't have good communication, that is for sure. Now it is kind of difficult to bring the subject, but it is possible if you're careful. Suggest you two try new things, and that will open up new opportunities for you.
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