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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:This is basicaly my last option to ask others out there who might have been in the same situation. I've completely fallen in love with this girl who I've known for almost 3 years. I am a girl too by the way. I am bisexual. When I actually talked to her for real one time I already really liked her, and after a few weeks I told her I liked her a lot and she said she was okay with it. Then 3 months later I told her that my feelings were getting much stronger. Another month later at least, I told her everything I had always wanted to tell her. Well, I didn't tell it to her face-to-face, I was IMing her. After telling her she said "aww" and added a smiley face. I thought that was a good thing, but she hasn't talked to me since that day. I tried 2 times to talk to her, but she ignored me and logged off. So my whole summer has been a bit depressing for me, only because I'm not sure why she won't talk to me. A couple days ago my friend text her and asked her if she could ask a question and she said "Sure but if it's about (my name) then please dont" and my friend showed me the text. My friend said it was about me and asked anyway. The question was "Are you weirded out by what (my name) said to you?" She said no. But anyway, I'm trying really hard to get over this girl, but I can't. I've tried everything and I really need some advice on how to get my mind off her. It's been messing up my whole summer! (Sorry I had to tell you the whole story) Please help me out here!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2009): To be honest, just try and forget about her - meet other people, try and get a new crush/love. There's no point dwelling on this, if she wants to talk to you, she will. If you keep trying to talk to her and ask her things then it will no doubt just annoy her and make her feel uncomfortable. The best thing you can do is just to leave her alone and spend time with your friends and try and forget about her! I know when you're in love with someone it seems like there is nothing else out there and that you will never get over it, but trust me, you will! Just concentrate on yourself, xx
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