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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Flirty Husband + Divorced Friend = Bad Idea?My husband made friends with a co worker, all 3 of us work together, although I'm not there that much becasue it isn't my main job. He had been helping her move, hugging her, posing for pics, playing golf with her ex husband, and even had a secret handshake only the two of them know (no, we are not in junior high) He did all this without telling me about any of it, and when I was around he would stay away from her, I almost never even saw them talking to each other, but then i find out when i'm not around he's a totally different person. Who's wrong here, him for behaving this way or me for being upset?He says he doesn't have any idea at all why he behaves this way, or why he hides it. Am I wrong to think that this lady is vulnerable and all this has crossed a line? I mean, for god's sake, a secret handshake? If that's not outright flirting with another woman then I don't know what is!he isl sending out the wrong signals, which it what I think is wrong here
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (16 June 2008):
 Nip this in the bud my dear. Your husband is playing with fire and so are you if you don't put a damper on it. This is not acceptable behavior, tell him to knock it off immediately.
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reader, JTalbott +, writes (16 June 2008):
 A primary relationship is the one where you are the one with the inside scoop on the "secret handshake".
Trust your instinct on this one.
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