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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I am with a guy who i have been with now for 10 months, I love him so much but recently we broke up and on the same night we got back together, we have just recently gone on a break to fix things. My best friend like this guy but that guy likes me but didnt want to tell me becoz i am going out with john. what should i do about the guy who likes me as i love my bf so much and i used to fancy Chris a year ago but then i met john. Please help
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2008): I have to ask....do you really love John? Like really, honestly, truthfully, maturely..LOVE John? It's likely you care a lot for him, but you don't love John, because if you loved John, as the AUnt below alluded to...no guy and I mean NO guy would turn your head. My suggestion: You are young vibrant, carefree and these are the wonderful years you should be living life to the fullest. That's what teens do at your age. They date and learn about relationships in preparation for the one big serious love relationships they will encounter, as an adult. It's life, we live and learn. Soooo...If you like this other guy, then tell John you want to date others, that you want to move on and then just go do it. . John will be okay-he should be dating others as well. And maybe someday, who knows...you and John may find each other again. But be honest with ONE of these guys and do it quickly. Take care, sweety and enjoy your wonderful youth as it's over far too fast!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2008): If you love your bf, then this other guy shouldn't even be an issue. As your having second doubts about John that shows you don't really like him as much as you thought. Follow your heart. Go along with John, or go with Chris. In the end get the one who makes you more happy.
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