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writes:i started working at lunch with this one guy and began to like him. well after awhile i lost intrest becouse i thought he didnt like me at all. so i ended up get his number from a frined didnt call or text him just kept in my phone just because. after a few weeks in summer i went camping with a friend and she whet trough my pics on my cell and was like wow hes hot a i was kiddind around and said just think i have his cell number ...longer story kinda short she ended up really likeing him and he was anyoed by her. so when we got in a fight me and the boy started talking of ways to make her mad and leave us both alone. our plan was make out in front of her just to piss her off. well we never did it but some how in one of our convos he said he did like me and wasnt using me just so shell bk off but actu.y liked me...yet we made plans and he never showed up...whats going on...do u think he really even likes me?
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reader, sunnycomet  +, writes (27 August 2009):
 ok I understand now.
But I still think the guy is a jerk if he showed up like that!!
Did you make contact with him since?
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reader, 13azzie +, writes (26 August 2009):
13azzie is verified as being by the original poster of the question ok i understand i look like a bitch but the reason me and my best friend got in to a fight in the first place is i liked this guy and told her and she when on and dated him anyways even tho i really liked him and almost dated him. shortly afrter getting over that she got kissed by my bf at the time and they kept flirting with each other and that night when i seen them kiss i cryed and got pissed at him not really at her. the next morning hse called to see if i was doing better and if i was mad at her.i told her that i was hurt by him but its chill between me and her(even tho i was hella mad at her and him still) and played it off as if i really was fine. she then later in the convo told me that she asked him out the night we started dating (even tho she was dating his best friend). he said yes to her and she told me that they kissed more then just that once that i seen. i got really mad so i hung up on her and shut off my phone. thats when i was goofing off talking to the dude i told you about in my question earlyer. well then i talked about making out cuz hes hot then he brounght up we could kill 2 birds with 1 stone by kissing and takinh pics....sry if i seem like a really big bitch
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reader, sunnycomet +, writes (24 August 2009):
Ok...let me get this straight...you liked this guy from work. You thought he didn't like you so you lost interest. But you kept his cell number anyway. You went camping with your FRIEND and she saw his picture and thought he was hot. Your FRIEND started really liking him but he found her annoying. I am guessing you had a fight with your FRIEND. He started talking of ways to get her mad and leave you two alone. You planned to make-out in front of her just to piss her off. First of all, I don't understand why you had a fight with your friend but I am guessing she is not your friend anymore. You wanted to make out in front of the guy that she really likes and you thought that would only piss her off?? Put yourself in her shoes...don't you think it would really hurt you if that happened to you? I am concerned for your lack of care for this girl. You and this guy don't sound like very nice people if you were planing to do this to her.
But to answer your question, I think he is just a jerk and you should get over him. If you made plans and he never showed up he doesn't care for you and would only use you if you get into a relationship with him. Stay clear from him. Maybe go to that friend and try to make things better between the two of you. The poor girl is probably hurting from his mean rejection and you are probably hurting from his no-show. I had no idea what happened between you and this friend, maybe she did something wrong against you but to plan something like that (be honest, it would hurt you alot) is wrong!
Good Luck!
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