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30-35,
*m81690
writes:Alright just wondering here, do you think this girl likes me or what?She's in one of my classes, we've hooked up like 5 times now, we flirt all the time, and she always gets me to call her, but lately, the last two weeks now, she'll say we wants to hang out with me, gets me to call at a certain time, and she's gone.And then she'll just say something like "I had to goto the mall", without caling and telling me she can't go out or anything.I mean she either likes me, or is just leading me on big time.Either way I'd like to hear some opinions because if this is going to keep up I'll just stop bothering.
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reader, red1982  +, writes (7 January 2008):
I had the same type of thing with a male friend, who was always too busy to see me (there were so many bizarre excuses as to why he didn't turn up)so I started dating someone else thinking he was giving me a really strange brush off and he got really offended and told my best friend that he had really liked me and couldn't believe that I had found someone else when he thought it was obvious to everybody that he really liked me.
I just decided that he was very odd and haven't spoken to him since.
It doesn't sound to me like this girl is interested in you anymore (if she ever was), and you have to ask yourself - if she is do you really want to be with someone who thinks that this is an acceptable way of treating you??
My advice is to stop bothering with her, if she does like you then she'll let you know once you stop chasing her.
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reader, Dr Vendetta +, writes (7 January 2008):
 could be playing hard to get. certainly playing mind games.
try doing the same to her. arrange to meet and then don't call her.
she's certainly playing mind games. just play her at her own game. if you get bored move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2008): I think she likes you, but she is also a bit flakey. If you really like her, ask her to be a serious couple. If you don't want to be serious, though, don't be surprised that she's not dedicated to the plans you make together.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (7 January 2008):
 If she has a valid excuse, you can forgive her.If not , she may just be toying and having fun with you.
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