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Do you think it was a wise move that I gave her my number?

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Question - (6 March 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 9 March 2007)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, *-763 writes:

Dear All

I'm currently in the first steps to (what I hope to be) my first relationship. I recently asked my lover for her number and she gave it to me. I text her previously and received no reply as she was unable to do so, which is understandable of course.

I'm slightly concerned as today her friend confirmed in front of her that she had received it and in fact my lover had showed her friend although sadly my lover (she is slightly shy) has not commented about it all day.

Her friend is very aware that I'm crazy about my lover and has constantly (as usual) been giving her hints after seeing me around.

I have been a little unsure if whether I have rushed into things and tonight I sent her another message saying, 'Hi, I hope you are well? I meant to ask you are you comfortable with me contacting you by phone. If so I promise to stop texting you'.

I sent the message to hopefully show her that I know that she is not acknowledging my messages even though she can't reply and also to try and get her friend to persuade her that I feel unsure of whether my lover likes me? I must say since I asked her for her number she has been slightly flirty with me.

Do you feel that this was a wise move?

Your views would be much appreciated!

Thanks!

G-763

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A female reader, aunty t Ireland +, writes (9 March 2007):

aunty t agony auntYou dont say why she cant text you back.. I think you need to pull back on this one. If she is not answering your messages then she is trying to tell you something. She knows how you feel about her so leave it to her to make the next move if she wants to. But I get the impression she doesnt want to. Why do you refer to her as your lover? It doesnt matter if she is shy if she wanted to make contact with you or she felt the same about you she would. be patient

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A female reader, wild_cherry69 South Africa +, writes (6 March 2007):

wild_cherry69 agony auntshe mite not have calltime.. but to be honest.. if u lyk her tel her. dont send her wishy washy messages

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