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female
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51-59,
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writes:Im so confused...Last night I was at a club and met this really terrific man. He was attentive and paid me loads of compliments, even talked to me at the bar instead of hanging with his friends. He asked for my number and made me text him right there so he could have my number. He told me he doesn't usually give out his number.He then cuddled, kissed me and held my hand all along the street until we could find a taxi for me. He asked if he could see me again and that he would call me. He seemed really sincere and nice. Neither one of us had had too much to drink so the conversation flowed smoothly and he was open about himself and told me he was single in front of his friends so I assume he wasn't lying. When I got home he had sent me a goodnight text with kisses.I was working today but I text him asking if he had a good sleep. He text back almost immediately with a kind of a joking message saying he'd slept like a baby. I Know it was a mistake, but I called his number just to say hello and he didn't pick up, despite just sending the text??I text him again saying 'ahhh not in the mood for a chat this morning? Right I have to get back to work but have a lovely day'... he hasn't replied.I am 46 and he is 40, so we arn't kids but I just don't get how someone can be so attentive and keen one minute and then the next avoid me like the plague??I feel like a jerk for attempting to call him, I don't even know why I did it, but I feel really rejected and feel like I made a bad mistake.Do you think I should wait a few more days or ditch his number now. I don't think I should try to text or call him again.What do you think?
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reader, AuntyEm +, writes (8 February 2011):
 You made the mistake of calling him...now you seem to be desperate so I doubt you will hear from him again. Don't make anymore contact, leave the ball in his court and if he hasn't called within a week...he probably won't.
Lots of guys get carried away when they are out for the evening having a few drinks, for all you know he could be married and just used you to boost his ego for the night.
Put it down to experience and don't let a couple of hours of meeting someone ruine the rest of your year if it doesn't work out.
If he does call...then it's a bonus.
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reader, amandab +, writes (6 February 2011):
no dont call him, who knows whats going on! you dont know him well enough to form an opinion. if hes keen he will call/text. dont forget some people like to wait a few days before they call and it was only last night. if you hear nothing in a week then just put it down to having a nice night and move on
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