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Do you fess up to cheating and get dumped? or try and pretend it never happened?

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Question - (22 November 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 23 November 2008)
A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

so i cheated on my boyfriend ,i had sex with my exboyfriend. it was just all in the moment, i know it was wrong and i shouldnt have done it. i love my boyfriend now, and i dont want to lose him. its only been 2months but i dont want to tell him, bc im sure if he knew he would leave. he has done nothing wrong to me. what should i do, tell him or not. it was one of those things where you thought u still had feelings, but as you were doing the dirty dee, you know you dont. like i said i dont want to lose my boyfriend right now. tell me what t do

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A female reader, hlskitten United Kingdom +, writes (23 November 2008):

hlskitten agony auntIf its not going to make your guys life better then keep shtum! If you wont do it agiain & love the guy you are with then dont say anything

C xxxxx

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A female reader, superbunny United Kingdom +, writes (22 November 2008):

superbunny agony auntPersonally, in my experience, it'd be better to dump your current boyfriend now and not tell him. If you tell him you are just going to hurt and humiliate him and you shouldn't stay with him because the guilt will eat you up inside, my sweet, and relationships are supposed to be built upon trust.

I did a similar kind of thing and told my boyfriend, then we split up and it was basically, to save his feelings, I should never have told him.

xx

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