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writes:I love the female form. There are so many variations of the female genitalia. What is the reason some women's labia majoria is hidden and others are larger and seem to hang out. Secondly, do women get hung up on there vaginas like men do with their penis'?
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reader, m8150n +, writes (19 June 2011):
I personally do not hold body parts as a measure of a person. Lets face it...we all age and as we do, the whole topic of "body parts" simply doesn't matter. It's like looks, they fade and what is left is who you are inside. If that's attractive now (the inside) then it will be when everything else goes. That's the measure of a person.
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reader, insrchof +, writes (24 June 2010):
insrchof is verified as being by the original poster of the question I already knew women obsessed about their breasts. Like I stated in the question, I love the female form and was only asking for your personal opinions. I am very oral and love to see, smell, taste and watch a woman's knees shake. I always tell a woman as I undress her that they need to stop thinking and simply enjoy the experience. I'm not rating your body or writing a book of things that are wrong with you. I consider a woman ALLOWING me to experience her body is a true gift. It shouldn't be abused or shared (don't kiss and tell).
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (23 June 2010):
 I think that women do often get self-conscious about their vaginas! Whether it's looks, how it smells, how it tastes, I think a lot of women get concerned about that. But, I don't think that you can compare it to how men obsess with the size and girth of their penis - I think women would be more like that regarding their breasts (are they big enough? Does he like them? Are they perky enough?).
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2010): No - I don't worry about mine or my boobs. I just try and make the most of what I've got. Confidence is sexy.
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reader, Elydiese  +, writes (23 June 2010):
No sorry, well i dont and i'm happy with the size of my boobs too so i dont have that problem and i can vouch for most women they dont worry about their vaginas although it is usually our boobs we compare with other women
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (23 June 2010):
 Doodle4.everybody is different and everybody has different experiences, so I am not belittling yours...but it is surely an unusual one.
Personally, I have never given half a thought to this issue in my life and it never came up in conversation with any of my friends and acquaintances.
Breasts, it's different. Ma women complain about theirs and compare them to those of other women. So I guess maybe breasts is what substitutes in a woman the male obsession for their penis's size and shape.
Probably because breasts are more immediately visible.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2010): nope but i do about my boobs somewhat. sheesh did i just say that? lol mal
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reader, Doodle4 +, writes (23 June 2010):
Ha....I have been waiting for a question like this. I can't speak for all women out there, but I certainly do give my area a lot of thought. Could be a result of my OCD tendencies or absolute boredom, but I'd be lying if I told you women didn't sometimes stress over the looks of their lady parts. It is only natural to look at yourself and wonder if everyone is the same, or not. When I was little, I wondered if mine was weird looking or normal. Hard to tell when it's not exactly appropriate to compare *sigh*. Another interesting point, a side note, if you will, but analogies can be made between how women treat the male genitalia and vice versa. For example, I'd imagine it is every guys' worst nightmare for a chick to call him "small". Likewise, it does a considerable amount of damage to the delicate female psyche to have a guy give a girl's labia rude names. Believe me, I had an asshole ex bf that totally degraded me in that sense. No matter what sex you are, it bites to have your junk made fun of. Hope this helps. Thanks, btw. I was bored and in need of something to think on.
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reader, veronika  +, writes (23 June 2010):
 Some women get hung up on it - some women even have surgery to 'enhance' their vagina or labia to make it look 'better' (I think surgery it's unnecessary in most cases though). Most of my girlfriends, though, don't talk about it.
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reader, xanthic +, writes (23 June 2010):
 Just like any other part, everyone's born different. And no, we don't give it a lot of thought.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (23 June 2010):
 LOL!!!!! This question made me laugh!
Guys are so funny. Trust me, we're not straddling handheld mirrors and admiring our vaginas. When we compare ourselves to other women, it's not the size or shape of our clitorises that even enters our minds.
But we don't mind that YOU guys like it, especially if you are also giving us intense pleasure while admiring them! We don't pay a lot of attention to guy's penises either, unless they're unusually deformed (i.e. curled like an anemic onion ring) or really tiny (AAA Battery) or huge (ever seen an elephant penis? Holy shit on a shingle!).
I've never heard a woman exaggerate the size of her clitoris/vagina like I've heard a guy do it. You look on trashy chat rooms and it's "hey baby. Wanna meet up and suck on my 9 incher?" Yeah Right. Ever heard a woman say "Hey baby, my clitoris is 4 inches and throbbing".
**snort**
Very amusing. :)
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reader, person12345 +, writes (23 June 2010):
 First question: Well what is the reason some men have super round testicles while others have danglier ones? Why do some people have noses that point up while others have noses that point down? Same with the labia. It's all just norma natural variation of a body part.
Second: Women are frequently EXTREMELY self-conscious, not hung up on, their vaginas. One, because we're basically always told it's gross and smelly and ugly even though it isn't. Clorox used to make a vaginal smell eliminator cleaner and the ads basically said, if you don't get that vaggy smell out, your husband will divorce you. Also because in porn almost all women have very small rounded labia, which very few women have. There's a procedure called a labiaplasty that has NO benefits whatsoever to sexual pleasure, it just makes your labia smaller. Basically, it cuts off sensitive erogenous tissue that can decrease your enjoyment of sex, just so you can look more like Playboy. More people are getting the procedure now than ever before, just for appearance and risking their sexual pleasure (you can be numb or hypersensitive for the rest of your life). I for one wouldn't ever do it. But I can understand why a woman would. I know I'm not the only one who's been told by a boy their parts were "gross" or "funny looking." I don't see men running out to cut at their bits to look better.
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker +, writes (23 June 2010):
 Most of us would really rather worry about our shoes, clothes and handbags - you know, stuff that we actually get to show off to the world at large, rather than an inch or two of flesh that is unlikely to be seen by anyone who is not himself showing his 6 inches worth.
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