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anonymous
writes:hey there, i have a big problem which is affecting my overall life and here it is i would like to share with you hoping that i may get your kind advises; i am thin thin thin...and my being thin is affecting my confidence to approach women whom i need in my life very much. i haven't had a gf so far in my life, i have a good job all i need now is to have someone to love and to be loved. but i have this silly proposition that women like muscular guys so from this i come to conclude that i am not attracted to women so do you think that this idea is correct?
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reader, fishdish  +, writes (4 February 2008):
 No offense!
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reader, fishdish +, writes (4 February 2008):
I tend to find skinny boys much more hot than muscular men, and i know several ladies that agree with me on this... we call it the heroin look.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2008): As a female i wont deny the fact that i do get attracted to slightly well built men with broad shoulders but also because i am not a thin personal myself. So it does suit me to walk with a stalky man not necessarily muscular.
It is completely up to you how you want to project who you are to women but i think men in shirts in general can disguise a lot. So if you are thin...i would recommend you wearing shirts a lot with trouser perhaps which will make you look slightly bigger or ofcourse you can join gym and check with instructor how to put on weight in right amounts in right places.
Hope it helps.
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reader, shandygirl +, writes (4 February 2008):
 I've read Success Stories in Weight Lifting Magazines about guys who were thin, then built themselves up. I am not saying that it is necessary to look like the guys in those types of magazines. To tell you the truth, I think that they are extreme, and well, GROSS. LoL. But, what I am getting at is that you can change your physical appearance with some effort, if you want. Or... you can stay the way you are. Of course, it is your call. You can do some research about how to gain weight, since it bothers you so much. And if you do decide to go that route, then excersize should accompany it.
When I was young, I dated muscular guys, and thin guys. It didn't matter, because I was attracted to their personality, intelligence and the energy they projected. The boyfriend I have now is not REAL good looking, but what attracted me to him, is he is extremely intelligent (from reading a lot, and college), strong, energetic, displays a LOT of confidence, and laughs a lot. Yet, he is also very considerate towards me. He cooks for me (not one sided), helps me with housework, but doesn't let me get away with acting like a BRAT sometimes.
Well, Good luck! I hope this helped :)
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (4 February 2008):
 Women maybe attracted to muscular men but they would prefer to marry guys like you because those muscular men tend to stray and have affairs.Some women think of them as sleeping partners only.
Go to the gym to exercise or get a fitter and a more toned body . This will increase your confidence and self esteem.
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