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*ruce lee
writes:Once I was with a prostitute and she seemed to feel uncomfortable because I touched her breasts. I don't know if all women are like this or if I had done something wrong. I understand that you shouldn't do anything to make someone feel uncomfortable during sex. But I found her reaction to be a bit strange.Do women mind if guys touch their breasts during sex?
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reader, bruce lee +, writes (10 August 2011):
bruce lee is verified as being by the original poster of the question I'm not sure what I'm meant to say about all this. Now I know the truth about prostitutes. Thanks for your answers. I guess life wasn't meant to be easy. And eventually we all have to get old and die. God is in control of all the bad things that are happening in the world. So we should all say a prayer to God that in future women enjoy having their breasts touched.
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reader, RedAthena  +, writes (10 August 2011):
 I think touching breasts in a pre-requisite for me!
However, you were with a prostitute. She was providing a "service" and touching her breasts may have been too intimate. She got to call the shots to what she was willing to provide.
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reader, angelDlite  +, writes (10 August 2011):
 i would imagine the prostitute just wanted the job over and done with without any unnecessary intimacy from you. lost of women love it, some may hate it, if not touched correctly or too rough it can hurt. when you with a partner and you get to know each other you will get to know what she likes, communication is always a good idea though instead of trying to mind-read
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reader, person12345 +, writes (10 August 2011):
 I think most women enjoy having their breasts touched during sex or at least feel neutral about it, but I think most would enjoy if for no other reason than it's fun feeling like the guy loves your body.
But prostitutes aren't "enjoying" being with you at all. If you think prostituted women WANT to have sex with you at all, you're kidding yourself. The vast majority of prostituted women hate it and would leave if they could. I'm going to go ahead give you my usual statistics on this:
89% of prostituted women would leave if they could.
75% have been homeless at some point.
68% suffer from PTSD from being in prostitution.
between 70-90% of prostituted women have been sexually assaulted/abused before entering.
1 in 500 is murdered.
If you want to be with someone who is enjoying sex then find a woman who actually wants to have sex with you, not one who has to have sex to survive.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2011): It does depend on the woman but I think a lot of women do like it (so I've heard and I do so myself). But obviously, it always depends on the individual.
It could have possibly been that because she was a prostitute she may have felt that you touching her breasts was a little too intimate for her, when obviously she doesn't want intimate sex.
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reader, MRJONES +, writes (10 August 2011):
 I was with a prostitute several months ago and she let me touch her breasts as much as I wanted, and seemed to like it. There were 2 instances with her, the first time she told me that she liked the way I touched her, and on the second, when I asked her of it was ok if i touched (her vagina, from memory) she said, "you can touch me anywhere you want"
She also to like touch play and lick my nipples. Not sure if that is that common with a woman? - Perhaps I could ask that myself as a separate question.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2011): Oh are you kidding? I love it! Never had sex but when a guy touched my breast the last time we were cuddling, I almost(almost) gave in. And it's simple to understand, the breast is one of the erotic zones of a woman. She probably gave a strange reaction coz prostitutes are most times treated with no emotional attachment but sex. I am almost sure she was just confused whether she should enjoy it or just slap off ur hand so she does not remember you:)
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2011): Most prostitutes don't like to be touched. They just enjoy the money not the sex.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (10 August 2011):
 This has to be a joke post.
Preferably, I wrap myself in cellophane every time I "do the nasty". That way the menfolk don't get ideas.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (10 August 2011):
 depends on the woman...
I don't mind... but it's not a deal breaker if my man does not either... I have one friend who just hugging her gets her aroused so NOT touching them is a deal breaker for her..
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reader, Kyle007 +, writes (10 August 2011):
Um, yeah. The prostitute is letting you have sex with her because its her job so anything beyond what your are paying for is going to make her uncomfortable. Who knows what these women feel inside anyway? She may not even like the fact she had to have sex with you but its her job. How fulfilling does seeing a prostitute seem to you now?
I have never, and will never resort to that. And every woman I laid with loved my playing with her breasts (they genuinely liked me, too, after all).
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (10 August 2011):
 I love it
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