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writes:Prefer women to answer this:Im near the end of my 8 week cutting cycle and my long term goal of revealing my abs is achieved. However i have lower abdomen scars from belly fat and have opted to have possible surgery to remove them. Sexually, would women prefer the scars or should i get them cleaned up? Reply to this Question
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reader, TrancedRhythmEar +, writes (5 November 2011):
TrancedRhythmEar is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank u for the advice.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (5 November 2011):
 I think a girl would need to actually be very shallow if she has a problem with a few scars on you. At the end of the day they are a part of you and you shouldn't have to change yourself for anyone. My guess is most girls wouldn't even take much notice to them.
However if they are personally getting you down and making you unhappy and you feel you need to get them removed for your own benefit well then go ahead and look in to it. But only if it is something that you really want to do.
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reader, charliesdevil73  +, writes (5 November 2011):
 I don't see the need to get the scars "cleaned up" but that is my personal opinion. I have tons of stretch marks, I know it's different than your scars, and I have had some men think they are gross and others not care. The first time I mentioned them to my husband, about 1 1/2 into the relationship, he asked "those are what those marks are? I never thought about them." So basically, I think if you find a woman who would love you for you and not just your body, then the scars wouldn't matter. I also think you should look for a woman like that.
But, if you think you would feel better with the scars cleaned up, then do it. Only if it's for you though. Never change yourself for someone else.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2011): Sexually, I wouldn't mind if there were scars. you'd both be thinking about the intimacy, rather than the scars.
however, every woman is different - one might like the scars, another might hate them. I think you should think about what YOU want, rather than what a woman would want.
Whether you get them removed or not should be for yourself. If you're comfortable with your body, then I don't see the problem with having scars, after all, nobody's perfect.
If they make you feel uncomfortable, then perhaps you should consider getting them removed.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2011): the biggest issue i would have with scars would be if it was causing self esteem issues for my man. i dont hold it against him if my man has self esteem issues, but when a guy gets those, its really hard to tell him its ok.. which is frustrating? so its only a problem if you make it one.
oh, and try mederma! it works great! me and all my girlfriends have been mederma happy here lately, killing all our stomach scars!.. (if your scars are stretch marks)
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