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writes:I am an Indian Girl. I have always been attracted to White Guys. This is kind of a poll question. How many white guys find Indian women a turn on? Is the dark skin a turn off? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2016): I had a beautiful Indian girlfriend from Mauritius, she was attentive, loving, had a natural grace and bright spirit. She was devoted to me. I felt I was too young to settle down and we drifted apart. No white English woman has come close to any of her qualities, I was spoiled and now my high standards of expectation have left me frustrated, especially as I suffer the usual indifference of a typical boring and unappreciative English woman for a wife. How I wish I could go back in time with my current wisdom, I would marry her without hesitation.
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reader, konrad  +, writes (3 December 2016):
Im white and I have a bias toward Indian women, because what I love most about India is the spiritual culture. The modesty and gentle spirit of a well raised Indian woman, who is sincere in her faith and cultural values is a very rare commodity in an increasingly materialistic and libertine Americanized global culture. Sometimes I think that the most sacred blessing I could ever get in life would be to find a wife who is more devoted to God than myself, and I could live in a marriage just like the ancient Rishis did with their wives, dedicated to doing sadhana. As you can imagine skin colour isnt much of a consideration. I think mutual attraction, whatever the race, is very dependent of astrological factors.
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reader, Maxwell840  +, writes (27 August 2015):
Indian girls have lots of nice qualities. Indian culture is very good. Indian girls are not about much of the nonsense white girls often are into. Now this is speaking in generalities only, always there are exceptions. I have dated one Indian girl and I found she was the best from anyone else I dated. Now the problem I ran into was her mom is very traditional, and would not accept me as a foreigner and moreover a white guy. And she could not be married without her mom's blessing. I know not all Indian families are that rigid and traditional. As to your question about skin tone, I find the duskier Indian girls every bit as attractive, if not more in some cases. It depends on the person, but I don't think you will find many white guys who will care as much about it. The more important question is whether a guy will date non-whites at all. Most will say yes. Then the question of which particular countries he will like the girls from better. If he will date Indians then okay, skin tone is no issue.One thing you should be careful about white guys is many of white men are less serious minded in dating. You might find some who just want to sample something exotic. So pay close attention or you might find yourself heartbroken.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2011):
I am a white guy. I once attended a wedding reception between two Indians. All of the girls there (friends of the couple) wore saris and other traditional dress. They were all very tall, very exotic, and very beautiful. I am not sure I have ever seen such a collection of beautiful women in my life before or since! Some of them had lighter skin and some had darker skin, but all darker than mine and to me it was a turn-on. I think Indian women, like all women, can be incredibly beautiful. This doesn't mean that all are, of course. It also doesn't mean all white guys feel the same way. However, this white guy would have no problem dating a beautiful, dark-skinned Indian girl should the opportunity ever present itself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2011): I cannot speak for other white guys, though I daresay that many feel the same as me, but I think women from this entire general region of the world are most beautiful. I am currently working in Iraq and have been exposed to women from different countries on this side of the world. There are many beautiful women over here.
Last summer, while working my job at home, I befriended a woman from India and she was one of the most adorable women (inside and out) that I have ever known. In short, I find Indian women very sexy.
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reader, AlexT  +, writes (15 April 2011):
Hi, I'm a white male and have dated a Bangladeshi girl for a while, and also 'very good friends' with an Indian girl. I find Indian (South Indian) women extremely attractive. From my previous relationship I know (most) women from India etc don't like a darker skin tone on them, but believe me there are loads of white guys who find it very sexy. I also love the long dark hair and find that they just have great character and emotional depth once you get to know them...then (and I have to say this) my best ever intimate times were with an Indian girl...so yes, at least I find you a huge turn-on!
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reader, ishita +, writes (17 January 2011):
 im indian and i think indian women are extremely beautiful and sensuous n have absolutely no reason to feel insecure.women in general are gorgeous,race,religion,shape n size doesn't really matter!besides,its what on the inside that matters the most.noone is gonna love u if u r an inch taller or a shade fairer!start loving yourself first!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2010): @indian-girl.. Aww I wouldn't worry about it so much. I am an Indian girl from Canada and to be honest it's really refreshing to have a naturally darker skin tone. A lot of people who are lighter (esp. white people) like to tan in the sun so that they get a bit darker. If you have someone who loves you anyways, that's all that matters right? Chaahe jo tumhe poore dil se, Milta hai voh mushkil se. Aisa jo koi kahin hai, Bas vohi sab se haseen hai.
Lots of love from this side of the world!
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reader, indian-girl +, writes (4 December 2010):
I am an indian girl. Brown skin, dark eyes, long and dark hair....features are pretty good....m tall and have good skin...but the problem is, all my life i had been in the complex that my skin is brown and in india it's a big minus to have brown skin. I am married to an indian guy whose color is fairer than me and it's almost 4 years we have been married. I am still not very confident to be open to my husband because of my inferior complex. This blog really gave me a good feel. Thanks for all your comments.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2010): I like darker skin and dark hair, but I think the culture difference is somewhat of a turn on. I do like how the skin around a woman's vagina is usually much darker that the rest of her skin and I like how bright pink it makes the inside of her vagina look. This really turns me on as I love eat pussy... lol
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2010): The dark skin is definitely NOT a turn off, it is a turn on, Why do you you think so many white women go abroad just to sunbathe. haven,t seen a picture of you but in general indian women are very attractive, and i expect you are the same so don,t ever put yourself down, good luck. from an english white guy,
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2010): I am an Indian girl... the annoyance doesn't stem from race/culture. I think Indian girl/white boy relationships are always double edged. On the one side if an Indian girl tries to hit on a white guy but gets shut down... the guy thinks.. "pssh this Indian girl is trying to hit on ME? please.. who does she think she is...she's trying to rebel against her parents" and if we get approached by a white guy but we turn them down.. we are stuck up. You just can't win.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2010): @fredericvo... that's not true.. I am Indian and I think as an Indian girl I just really appreciate a hardworking, intelligent and interesting guy because I expect those same qualities from myself. I may not end up being a doctor or an engineer but that doesn't mean that what I do end up doing is anything short of great. I would find these qualities attractive in any male regardless of race.
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reader, Fredericvo  +, writes (3 October 2010):
I love desi women but one thing I've noticed is that they only want to date Doctors or Engineers. I'm neither.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2010): Indian women know how to act like a lady,,,much class !!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2010): indian women are beautiful but beauty is in the eye of the beholder. i live in the uk and find indian women a very big turn on. They have beauty, class, values and morals and more than that they have intelligence.
Its not just the the colour of their skin or there stunning dark hair but its the way they mix indian and western styles to create something truly unique and specail. More white men find indian girls attractive than they let on from what my friends say it is because of the religous or cultural differances but if you let that sort of thing to influance your opinion then your not true to what yourself. presonally i look at indain over white girls any day.
if Riya Sen reads this please marry me ;)
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2010): I am an Indian woman. I definitely have had lots of white guys interested in me.. unfortunately I don't know if i would date any of them because my impression is that they are only into the sex with no interest in knowing my culture and values... not all white guys are like that of course but i mean the ones I have come across were.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2010): i think indian woman are the sexiest woman in the world
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2010): im a young white guy.to be honest most indian girls ive seen are usually old and ugly.(not to mention other asian girls pakistani,bengali,shrilankan who are among the ugliest ive seen in europe,well not that ugly like black women,most of them without offence...).From my experience being white with dark hair(black) im into blondes,blue eyed girls mostly,and most of my friends(having brown,dark or black hair) prefer women with light coloured hair,thin facial features.Most blonde guys ive known they are into dark haired girls,mostly black haired or brunettes,they dont give much care to the skin,as many think though,but they almost in all cases hang out with dark-black haired girls with "caucasian" features,like kardashian.I have some blonde fellas from school,and they are not into blonde girls but i would say they find funny if not disgusting the features that arabic and indian girls have.Hooked noses,big noses,big nostrils,big and round cheeks,small and pointy chins,big foreheads,you know and other features,average bodies that are usually found mostly in that women.We pay a lot of attention to the face,so if you have a lovely face,with pretty,thin and feminine features then you gonna have a lot of chances dating white males.Believe me skin colour doesnt matter in Europe(i am European),and if they mock you about your skin,and you are beautiful its mostly other factors,other than race.We didnt wait for the black-brown immigrants from Africa,South Asia or West Asia,to consider a woman with wide big nose,and huge eyes or curvy forehead ugly.I can assure you that white women,even the blonde ones with that features are considered ugly.Also what ive seen is that those whites who dont have a crush for a blonde,they have a crush for the black haired,blue eyed godess from the former soviet union(you know girls from tartaria,georgia,caucasia,cazackstan),and many prefer the latinas look chicks.But almost nobody the arabic or asian(indian,pakistani,..),it is considered somekind of rough and ugly.Its not the skin as far as i can tell,its more what your face and body are looking.Ive seen very pale girls with natural blue eyes who were ugly as fuck,because of their face.Ive just wrote all this to let you know that skin colour is nothing,from my personal experiences and observations.A beautiful person comes to all colours.Its just the frequency that changes,suddenly among certain coloured populations ugly women are the majority.But after all its just my preferences,maybe there are white men who are fond of hooked noses or chubby cheeks or something else.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2010): Hi am an English Egyptian guy, i just wanna say its not that indian women are ntoa turn on, they are just nto much around or very closed i myself live in Dubai there are lotsa indians over here, i find indian women very attracktive in fact, they have very natural beauty, their figure their skin is very femenin, calm and polite and knows how to sustain a relashionship, its just that they are very closed and i cant think fo a place u can meet and hook with an indian girl, thats mainly the reason i thinktell me ur opinions as well if am right or wrong
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reader, Dadey01 +, writes (14 July 2010):
I have loved Indian women since I was a student. It may have been because she was forbidden to meet a whit boy by her father.
It's the deepness of the eyes, the luscious lips and the lustrous black hair. What a combination!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2010): I am an Indian bengali girl living in India. I am writing a novel about the relationship of a white man and an Indian girl back in 1940s. He luvs her but does not let anyone know about this, as he thinks that it would harm his image. But I want to say that if the girl is beautiful, polite, clean in her behavior nobody can help falling for her. And Indian girls have it all. Usually white man think that Indian girls won't be good on bed. It's not like that. We don't get aggressive in our behavior on bed just because there is something in our genes that makes us respect our man. We Indian girls know our limits. And we value our relations.
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reader, wahida +, writes (27 June 2010):
well i am Bangladeshi girl with yellow skin , and my ex boyfriend is a white , we were together for 3 years =] i am 18 and very attracted to white men...some are loyal most are not ... i live in USA and raised up in here ..i think they are attracted to South Asians...
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2010): Im a Bangladeshi woman, and i personally am attracted to white men more than other men, but its not about skin colour. Any skin colour can be beautiful :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2010): I'm white and indian girls are a huge turn on for me. They always seem to be dating guys inside their race though.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2010): Im an average looking indian girl,living in India itself and white guys are definitely my type.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2010): Bengali women are beautiful and so is a persons character, if the two merge than she would have me transfixed. From my own perspective who happens to be White South Asian women are beautiful plus they know how to be tactful and respectful.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2010): Im an Bangladeshi girl
And all my life i found white men attractive
and now im in a relationship with a handsome white man
For the last 3 years and 3months
i love him and he loves me
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2010): corrected text.
I am an indian woman and met a gorgeous blond, blue eyes, 6ft tall etc... always heard stories about white man lovemaking and eventually after much persuasion, let myself be seduced by him ... o my god! what a difference... but I thought they would just take you for a ride but it seems now he is getting more and more hooked to me... and is even talking about babies... but still I don't know if I can handle a white man... am susceptible of how long they can hold a relationship.. we indians are different where relationship are concerned we all know that...
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2010): I am an indian women and met a gorgeous blond, blue eyes, 6ft tall etc... always heard stories about white man lovemaking and eventually after much persuasion, let myself be seduced by him ... o my god! what a difference... but I thought they would just take you for a drive but it seems now he is getting more and more hooked to me... and is even talking about babies... but still I don't know if I can handle a white man... am susceptible of how long they can hold a relationship.. we indians are different where relationship are concerned we all now that...
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2010): I am an Indian girl myself.Am pretty average looking.I am plain in fact.Not all Indian girls look pretty.Not all of them look ugly.We are just like any other girl from any other country.
I think OtherStarfish got it right.All women are attractive irrespective of whichever country they are from.:)
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2010): Indian girls are the best, married to one for 10+ years. Very sexy and great lovers.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2010): Wow.. I am an Indian girl raised in Canada ..white guys are attracted to me though I feel like people think that Indian girls raised in the West are too westernized and "corrupt" as in they don't respect their culture or have good values.. which is complete garbage (at least in my case)...so where do you find a guy (be it White or Indian) who doesn't think that about Indian girls. If you guys really do think we are beautiful and you truly want a loving relationship.. make it known.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2010): I find Indian women wildly attractive especially when they are educated and take good care of themselves.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2010): Not at all! I know of a bunch of white guys who like indian girls! Indian girls are actually a turn on for most white guys!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2010): all the smart ones...
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2010): Im a white English guy and I think Indian girls are the sexiest, best looking on the planet. beautiful skin and eyes and absolutely amazing in bed!i love you all xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2010): Indian women are the most naturally beautiful women on the planet! The caramel colored skin is very sexy and the features and mannerisms are so very intriguing... :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2010):
I am a successful white man in my 30's. I think its personal preference. Some indian women are hot some not - just like some white, black, yellow girls are hot and some not.but the thing I like about indian women other than their exotic beauty is indian women are raised traditonally and aren't easy. Its indian women who taught us white people how to season our food. Indian women know how to raise their children. It is because of the indian womans elegance, love and beauty that I would love to date an indian queen. Its not just the outer beauty that captivates and draws me to them. Its the fact that they come in all colors and shades. Their inner beauty is what I find most appealing. Hopefully one day I will find my brown, virtuous indian woman who can be a good wife and mother to my children. Someone who can be my best friend and understand my struggles.
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reader, elpkent +, writes (2 June 2010):
dear indian women Its true for me at lest indian women are so Beutiful, i like them, the dark skin so fine...
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2010): I am an Indian girl born and raised in Canada. From my experience, I have had a LOT of white guys attracted to/like me. The problem is that white guys (or any non-Indian race) assume that I wouldn't go out with them because of cultural differences or that my parents are too strict. Given that SOME Indian parents are strict, many (including my own) are quite liberal and embrace all cultures. Therefore, white guys (or other races) please don't be afraid to approach Indian girls:D We are really friendly and have a lot to offer too:D Also I would like to add that many Indian girls are well educated, intelligent and career-oriented.. if you surround yourself with these types of girls than there can be an even stronger relationship... suddenly race takes a backseat to grace, intelligence and humility.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2010): I love their look; down to their hair, facial structure and beautiful range of brown skin tone. However, when I lived in the San Francisco area my impression was that a lot don't take care of their bodies as I saw a lot of soft bellies popping out of their shirts. That's unattractive no matter what culture or ethnicity you come from. So as long as they keep themselves in shape, I'd say VERY HOT.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2010): I am a white male, and for me, Indian woman are a very big turn on!
I find them very attractive, intelligent, and sexy. I would definitely want to date and/or marry one. I have worked with a few and also had some as friends, and they are very charming people.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2010): Hi. In answer to your question the vast majority of white guys I know (I am also a white guy) think Indian women are absolutely gorgeous. The refined features, stunning eyes, sexy bodies as well as the absolutely wonderful long and thick hair is a definite turn on. It is not a matter of skin colour (although certain people obviously have their preferences)but the whole exotic (for us anyway)and very sexy package.
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reader, Honest Answer +, writes (15 April 2010):
 Indian woman are hot. Confidence is hot too. Skin color makes no difference to me.
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reader, tangocharlie  +, writes (15 April 2010):
I can tell you that if something is putting off white guys, it might be more cultural. I can only speak for the US, a thick Indian accent, combined with a UK vocabulary can be very aggravating to listen to, especially over the phone.
On the other hand, if the qustion is only about appearance, consider the singer Norah Jones.
And consider all the silly white people at the beach burning themselves red as they try to get darker - they wouldn't do that if it was considered ugly.
I can tell you that the single most attractive person I think I've ever met in person was of pure Indian decent, from two parents who had emigrated to an English speaking country when she was young.
You have nothing to worry about. Just make sure you find a guy who will treat you right.
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reader, C3684 +, writes (30 January 2010):
I think Indian women are the most beautiful in the world. I had an Indian girlfriend years ago and wish I could meet another now.
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reader, trle907 +, writes (8 August 2009):
i am an indian girl i am pretty light being an indian girl and i have naturally brown hair, i have dated white guys before and they have found me attractive and said they liked my personality and that i wasnt too materialistic and i was humble but im not sure....i know a lot of white guys out there that find indian girls attractive.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2009): I am a white guy who has dated every race of women. Indian women are my favourite. I have a beautiful Indian girlfriend who is the love of my life!!!
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reader, jpsalsa_01 +, writes (21 June 2009):
No problem with the dark skin. Indian women are sexy! They have everything going for them that Hispanic women have going for them (and Black) without the attitude problems. They are very smart and beautiful. You should be proud! (I'm whiter than white and blue eyed and Indian women are definately my type!) The only men who have a problem with dark skin don't like dark women period, not just you guys. I hope this helps!
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reader, Rich937 +, writes (17 May 2009):
I prefer Indian girls, I tend to find they're more attractive, however they tend to be less emotional/ harder to have a relationship with. I find anyway
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2009): no I find indian and asian women very sexy
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2009): Hi...im a white guy who absolutely adores Indian asian women.The dark skin is the great turn on,that and the beautiful dark hair.I've never dated an Indian girl before as i find them a bit unapproachable,they always seem to be in all indian groups. One of my best friends is lucky enough to be married to an Indian girl, not sure where I'm going wrong, i've even spent a year travelling across india but admittedly not actively looking to meet anyone. Would love to know where and how to meet a beautiful indian girl.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2009): hey everyone, it should not be about RACE, but about character, and the type of person concerned. some indians just want to go out with "white" people to show that they have "progressed". skin colour should not be an issue but morals, integrity, honesty and inner beauty.peace to all.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2009): Every indian girl is special in her own way. I am also a Indian woman happily married to a white and I have 2 yrs Baby boy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2009): i think indian women are really hot and beautifuli have so many of my friends dating white and fyi they are indiansso forget the race and go get your man
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2009): i am a white guy and i find indian women very beautful. thanks, paul
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2009): I'm half dutch, one quarter Hawaiian, one eighth Filipino, one eighth Korean, let's allow 15% margin of error, my neighbor is Indian, best friend caucasian, Persian boyfriend, my daughter has a brown long sleeve tee, I own white sneakers, black pants, a baby blue sundress and my skin is light olive, and my three teeth are yellow. Do you think guys would like that?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2009): I am half indian meaning half of my family is indian and the rest half are either british white or German white...My uncle is white and he is Austrian...My brother is engaged to a white girl right now..Does that help??
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2009): I suspect that this question would be rather controversial the other way round- anonymous summed it up very well;
"You have to look at the individual person. Men aren't just turned on by a skin colour."
Surely you don't want to be judged for the colour of you skin any more than other posters should for the size of their waist of the size of their chest??
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2009): You know if I were a lesbian Indian woman in a wheelchair I would probably qualify for more scholarships and programs. And then imagine the open doors if I were pretty too.
Especially with white guys who like hot Indian lesbians playing the damsel in distress role.
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (21 April 2009):
 I probably would, if I were a lesbian. Indian women are really beautiful.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2009): You have to look at the individual person. Men aren't just turned on by a skin colour. Also some men could be turned on by Indian women but then start to wonder whether there would be a barrier because her family might not like her being with a white guy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2009): well i am an indian girl and my boyfriend is white
and we have been dating each other for about 2 years now
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2009): everyone has there own opinion. i personally like white girls, the darker the skin the more a turn off it becomes and for me to be attracted to them they have to be very beautiful
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reader, Who +, writes (21 April 2009):
 White woman around the world spend dozens of hours a year lying in the sun to get tan. Together they spend billions of dollars a year on tanning lotions and tanning booths. Do you think they would do this if their men did not like dark skin?
However I’m guessing you are not interested in all white men. You are interested on one white man in particular (whom you may or may not have found yet) and if he is turned on by YOUR dark skin. Plus turned on by everything else about you. The answered is yes, you are going to meet several men in your life who are turned on by you (you have met several already but you may not have been aware of it.) With some of these men the feeling will be mutual. And it you read a sampling the questions posted on this site, finding the man with the mutual feeling is only the beginning.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2009): Yeah, I think Indian women are very exotic and beautiful. I prefer South American though: Brazilian, Venezuelan, and Columbian are the best!
So why do you prefer white guys??
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2009): Depends on her face and body.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2009): All women are attractive, its not the skin thats important (But it does help). Exotic is generally good and Indian is exotic so yes - a turn on.
to turn the question around why do you like white guys?
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