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writes: What does anyone think of a situation where parents intervene in who they think is right or wrong for their children who've been brought up well and go to the extent of banning them from seeing someone. In this case it was a nice person but whose family have a bad name for drinking / stealing etc and so parents do'nt want me getting involved with. Reply to this Question
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reader, David Lewis  +, writes (5 August 2006):
 This reminds me of when I was younger.
I had a girlfriend when I was 13 and I used to be in trouble with the police quite a lot.
I used to steal and use stolen money to shower her with gifts.
Both sets of families stepped in and came together to split us up. I hate them for that, even though in retrospect, it was the right things to do.
What I am getting at is that, no matter how much you feel your parents are against you, they are only trying to protect the future you.
By the way, I grew tired of crime before the age of 16 and concentrated on putting my love for people to use in another way rather than crime.
I concentrated my efforts on gaining respect from people I cared for rather than trying to buy it and became happier for it.
Due to my parents stopping me from seeing the person I loved most of all, it made me a much wiser, better and nicer person.
I am sure you will feel the same way in a few years time.
Best of luck
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reader, chazx +, writes (26 July 2006):
 Hello
Ithink that maybe you should speak to your parents and tell them that he isnt like the other lot in his family.
but it is understandable that you family are worried about you because you are still there child and parents are always trying to be overprotective of there children.
just try and make them believe he isnt like that, but as long as you believe that first.
Good Luck.
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