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writes:After a troubled relationship we had to broke up, and I had really bad time and awful summer, we were happy in the first but we reached a point that we couldn’t stand each other , and my boyfriend had to broke up with me ,was his choice and he didn’t give me any chance again to get him back ,and shut down everything to let me gave up. There was no main reason for the break up no cheating nor violence or we didn’t have any fight during the relationship , only was miscommunication and misunderstanding and both of us creating fake drama in his mind and we didn’t know how to approach each other. Last thing between us was fight on the phone, the day I moved out of his home and we didn’t contact each other again. Now it’s over between us, each one has his own life, but I feel that I miss him, no but I do miss him I feel like making a friendship with him The thing I am confused and I can’t find the discovery is (Wether I want this friendship or just I miss him) because its rarely for separated couples to be friends.Shall I ask him for friendship (might be rejected also) or just move on in my life and forget him totally which is also hard but I have done the hardest stage Thanks
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (21 September 2009):
No, don't be friends with him at all. You will get very hurt. Of course you miss him, that's natural. And more than missing him, you probably miss the feeling of being in a couple. The best thing to do is not to contact him at all, but try and meet new people. There are a lot of other men out there, and you'll find someone who you do get on with. Lots of luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2009): I think just move on in your life , once u see him u would miss him more and feel like being with him again and u may suffer
and he might reject you , so u would feel ur self cheap
so forgot about him
good luck
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