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writes:ive been single for 2 months now and ive thought about getting back with an ex boyfriend from 4 years ago so i got in touch with him and all he said was he didnt know what he wanted but my friend told me to say to him why not just give it a go and see how it goes but every time i see him or speek to him hes in a bad mood so i dont think its the right time do i just accept he doesnt want me?
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reader, leanne.od +, writes (25 September 2007):
 4 years is along time and the reason for your split back then must have been a valid reason for your split and just because you now feel like you are lonely, you need to take time out and get over your current ex before considering dating again.
besides from everything else, your ex from 4 years ago tol you he didn't know what he wanted, you can't push him into trying when it'll only be you who gets hurt again.
there's nothing wrong with being single for a while, get a bar of chocoalte and have a girly night with some dvds to cheer you up and in another couple of months you'll wonder why you ever went with either guy in the first place.
best of luck.
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reader, Emaz help +, writes (24 September 2007):
 Why do you even want to get back him?
You split up right?
You haven't spoke or seen him for 2 months?
Do you only want to get back with him because you're lonely?
You split up for a reason, don't try and get back with him unless you actually really really like him again, otherwise you'll just split up again.
if you still want to get with him again then just casually ask him if there could be a chance.
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