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writes:There is a guy,I met him while I was working in England.He was very nice to me,he smiled at me and stared all the time.We talked a few times.When I was leaving England,I asked him for his phone number,he gave it to me willingly.I wrote him a text when I came back to Lithuania,asking if he would like to meet me when I am back in England.He responded "it would be nice ".But then I learned from my friend who knows him, that he has a girlfriend ( and what's more ha has a child with her ) and they broke up,but now they are dating again but he says that "it makes no sense"I dont't know what to think of it,I'm mixed up.Shall I give up,or take a risk and call him when I'm back in UK ? I really have a crush on him and I'm afraid of rejection !
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reader, MuffinGirl  +, writes (15 August 2008):
 Call him up. You can go out on drink. And then you'll see what will happen. You can't lose much. If he is really in relationship be more careful about everything. As friends- why not? As lovers- you should think about it, specially because of his child. But true love doesn't know any limits, don't you think so? And if he will be single when you're in England, why not? I just hope he likes you. I think you would know that if you go out with him. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2008): Yes, calling him - not texting him - would be a very good idea. Let him know what you know about him and ask him where you fit into his life. It really is that simple.
If he's too busy with his girlfriend he ought to be decent enough to give you an honest answer. *Some* English guys are honest.
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