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writes:I don't know what to think. I am completley devastated. the situation is this, I dated my girlfriend for 5 years, and have been broken up with her for just over a year now.I am still completley in love with her, but am confused to wether she still loves me? the reason I am confused is that she is giving me mixed signals? she recently just told me that she is dating someone new, and she claims to be in love, but she also told me this. she told me that she was walking in the supermarket with her new boyfriend the other day, and started to cry when she looked over at him and realized that it wasn't me? she then followed that information up by letting me know that although she started to cry, that it didn't take away what she felt about this new guy she is with? Does she still love me or am I doomed? I don't know how to move on? I am still in love with this girl and can not seem to get her out of my daily thoughts.another thing that I might add is that she tells me that her new boyfriend and her almost broke up because he is jealous that she still talks with me, and answers my texts. she let this new guy know that she is my friend and will always be there for me?if someone could please give me any advise or comments I would be indebted.
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reader, Skeez  +, writes (4 September 2007):
 Maybe your ex does still love you. But you were in a 5 year relationship. that is a rather long time just to be in a normal relationship. did you ever move in together?
But also she may liek this new guy too as hes a change *not to be nasty* but she may well have wanted somehting different in her life. Like a new approach or a new routine in her realtionship. I think talking to her will do the world of good. If you still speak to her then thats brilliant. theres still a connection between you too.
And about that whole crying in the supermarket...that sounds to me as though she really does miss something about your relatonship you had together. Why did you break up in the first place? and who broke up with who? You really need to tell us that so we can help out a lil more. If she broke up with you becuase of some lack of intimacy or somehting then maybe talking to her on the phone about it will clear the air and you will possibly find the answers your searching for. She probably does miss you but likes this other guy too becuase he has somehting different for her to experiance. I knwo its selfish for someone to swap a guy every minute of there life, but your ex sounds genuine. and talking to her will be very helpful.
I hope u find your answers hun
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