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writes:Ok this may sound simple but this is a tough one because my mate means more to me than anyone on this earth!I have two options:Option 1 = I tell him i love him (he already knows i like him he's been told before by a mate of mine and i also admittd it to him once when someone said something about us, however i did tell him after something happened (someone spread lies about me) that i said i like you but i dont wanna be with you because i thought that was why he was being awkward with me because he still tought i was after him. Thing is i tell him i love him and i cant get over him...which i cant im a total mess. I suppose i jsut need to hear it from him that it will never happen as he has showed he liked me alot. But if i tell him all this he maybe awkward with me or i may annoy him.or..Option 2 = I leave the situation and keep our friendship, hope it improves and we get closer. See what happens with a girl he's met but he just said shes a nice girl and shes fit(not said it to me but to someone else) and if i dont tell him i fear they will go out together which will kill me. However if they do go out we may not be as close + it will literally rip me apart because ive got so depressed over him its unreal (thats if he goes out with her.Do i say anything or dont i? he doesnt know tht i know about this girl but even if she wasnt in the situation id have to do or say something soon because i cant go on like this. Any advice would be good thanks!
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reader, DiamondGirlx  +, writes (26 November 2009):
 OMG i had the exact same problems, and i didnt say anything to him and do you know what happended?
He ended up with the girl he thought was really fit :(
I still regret not telling him to this day because i moved away afterwards and he then told one my mates that he realy liked me too!!
Say something you can't lose honest if he doesnt like you back then at least you can say you tried and heck you can still be friends even if he does turn you down, which im thinking he wont tbh.
Really wish you the Best of luck with this 1 :) D.Gx
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (25 November 2009):
You know you need to say something now before you lose him. The risk of never knowing what might have been surely outweighs the risk of making things awkward in my opinion. He may really like you, but how will you know if you don't say anything. I think you should risk it. :) So good luck.
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