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41-50,
anonymous
writes:What is it with most men. Ive been messed around by my ex 4 two years dont know if he want me or not! Stupidly ive hung around cos i was in love. And yet hes been sleeping with other and me in between making his mind up! Ive not been with anyone! Then i meet someone who really nice we go out a few times then i find out hes got a girfriend and wants to leave her 4 me! But not until he knows i want him for sure! Im 26 nice girl i have a 5 yr old daughter! Im nice looking slim.blonde. Have really nice qualitys. Never cheated. Never had a one night stand! Just wanna settle down wiv someone look after them iue got so much love to give. Ive got great friends. They tell me to stop worrying so much and i kinda have low self esteem! But thats from being mentally abused from my ex! I feel why to people wanna be with me? I must be an easy target or something to get messed around so much! Maybe i need to toughen up! I just cant remember when i was last happy!help?
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reader, StudentOfLife  +, writes (26 May 2009):
 Sometime, single mothers gives that "desperate for love" feeling away which some guys uses to their advantage.
Since they sense love before they can themselves feel it, they don't care about the other person as much.
It's not about toughen up, it's about controlling your feelings. To give love to those who give it to you.
Happiness and other emotions are in no way determine by outside sources. You're the one controlling your emotions, don't let outside sources decide if you're happy or not.
Just make the decision to be happy.
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