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writes:I'm 16 and I have 32A breasts. My boyfriend had a girlfriend before me with at least a C-cup. He says he doesn't care, but the way he looks at me when I'm in my pj's he seems dissapointed. Do men look at anything other than the size of a girl's chest? I mean, I'm tall and slender, so wouldn't it look odd for me to have bigger boobs? I hate looking in the mirror 'cuz I know what he's thinking. Should I think about surgery in my future?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2007): i love smaller one just a Acup is the best size i think they are a really turn on to me i love them small
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2007): im a guy and for me it doesnt really matter what a girl looks like, if shes got a good personality and makes me smaile thats all i want, if this guy really does look at you and feels disappointed he needs to sort his head out,hope this help
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2007): It is terrible that celebrities and porno stars have made young girls feel ilke you. I am sure he is not disappointed with you - if he is he is no good. You are not an object, you are perfect and individual.
You have not had any babies yet and your boobs wil change then, they may well get bigger. How would you feel if you got a boob job, wanted to breast feed and then we are all told that babies who are breast fed by Mums with implants are more likely to develop cancer...or something. It may sound far-fetched, but we hear these sorts of scares all the time. You have a future stretching way ahead of you and you should go forward with confidence.
Next year or the year after small boobs may become the in-thing. I know plenty of men who love small ones, which do not droop so much with time. Imaging being 80 years old with loose saggy boobs and implants like tennis balls in socks! I am saying that to make you think how lucky you are to be young, beautiful, able to run for the bus without hurting, lie on the beach without digging two holes. You sound as though you could have a graceful figure, like a ballerina.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2007): Here is the thing darling, you are perfect at 16, you are not meant to have big breasts, you are sleek in your youth, you will never be this age again, and you should appreciate the body you have now and be comfortable in your own skin...you could get a boob job, but you are no where near complete in your development, and guess what, the body is not a constant thing, it is ever changing and your breasts will most likely get larger as you age and gain some weight (sorry to say it happens to most women) breasts after all are largely fatty tissue.....so if you want big boobs, gain some weight.
I am disturbed that you think your boyfriend is looking at you with dissappointment, I think he is probably not mature enough to give you a commitment and this is what you are really picking up, but because of your own filter (your insecurity about your breasts) you are not seeing things for what they are.
You two are very young, and your relationship will be a time in your life that you remembet, but to change for this temporary relationship or any relationship for that matter is just silly. Having a boob job is major surgery which can be dangerous, and to many men fake boobs are a turn off, they do not feel natural, nor do they behave like real boobs....ever see a woman with fake boobs lay down, her boobs stand at attention and do not take a nap with her like the real ones do....they are supposed to lay down flat against your chest wall when you lay down, that is how they are designed, that is what is supposed to happen....but, if you can't be patient for yours to fill out, and you want to get then to have power over men, then that is your loss and your decision.
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reader, Carina  +, writes (15 June 2007):
 Yesterday I happened to see a video of guys being asked questions about women. One of the questions was 'Do you like big-breasted women?' There were ten guys answering the questions, ranging from late teens to thirties in age. Every single one of them said it didn't matter. They liked women who were in proportion.
So, don't worry. Be proud of who you are!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2007): If a the size of a woman's breasts is the tipping point between a guy being with her or dumping her then he's in that relationship for the entirely wrong reasons. The fact that you're still together should speak for itself. If he says he doesn't care and you trust him then what's the problem? It seems like either you don't trust him or your own lack of self-esteem is pushing you into this thinking. Although men's brains are programmed to be attracted to the size of a women's breasts, it's a very superficial and primitive form of attraction - one that I don't place much value in.
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