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36-40,
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writes:hello,i broke up with my ex about 4 months ago...We argued all the time and made up just as often. She would say the sweetest things and would do anything i'd ask her to. She would always say she had tunnel vision when she looked at me., she would marry me. I reminded her of every girl she's ever had a crush on. I thought the world of her but didn't quite know how to show it. I loved her, enjoyed her more than any woman i've dated...About a month after we broke up she started dating someone she met on myspace who lives in florida whome she told me she was "just friends" with.The last time we spoke, about 2 months ago, after arguing for about 2 hours, i asked her if she loved me and she said yes. She also stated that i broke her heart, she was mad at me and couldn't deal with me in her life. I checked her myspace a little bit ago and saw pictures of her and her new girlfriend. She's very clearly into this girl. Her myspace is a shrine to this girl.I miss her but i don't know. She's stubborn and does crazy things for attention but i pay her no attention. I ignore her so to speak. Silly question but, do i just let her go?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2007): To be honest, sounds like you both enjoy the game. She's manipulating you and you're falling for it. As hard as this it to hear, she's moved on and from the sounds of it I can almost guarantee she had this other chick lined up before you actually broke up. She's a player, and you deserve more.
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reader, muffy +, writes (23 November 2007):
 yes.you should let her go.just because she says she loves you doesnt mean she actually does.actions speak louder then words.obviously she is interested in someone else and shes moved on.its not worth the time arguing when you could be spending time with a person who you dont argue with.if you just ignore her then let her go.
i hope i helped
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reader, TomWilkinson  +, writes (22 November 2007):
 From the sound of things, you should let her go. She has clearly moved on, and as hard as it seems, so should you. You're only young (in my age bracket and I'd say I'm young =P) and it's the perfect time for you to be enjoying yourself, meeting new people, the usual stuff!
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