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writes:I've just split up with my boyfriend and I asked him to delete any private pictures he took of me and embarrassingly a video. He thinks I have no right to ask him to do that as it was for him. To be honest he seems a bit obsessed with me, he keeps ringing and turning up at my door, he phoned 30 times yesterday. I don't think he would show people these things but don't I have a right to ask him to delete them!?
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (17 August 2012):
 Of course you have the RIGHT to tell him, but he also have the RIGHT to tell you:" no, I will not do it."
And learn from this... Don't agree to this again and don't make movies/pics that you don't want to see 1-2 10-15 years from now.
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reader, BondGirl72 +, writes (17 August 2012):
 You have a right to tell him anything you want, but that doesn't mean he is going to do it. I don't need to tell you now, but this is one of the drawbacks of taking these types of pictures and videos and sending them to people (boyfriend or not). They will always be "out there" and you have no control over what your ex or anyone else does with them. If your ex is as obsessive as you say, he's probably not to be trusted with them. I would stop communicating with him and change your number if you have to. Best advice: Don't take these types of pictures/videos of yourself or allow anyone else to do it. They will only cause you trouble.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2012): Yes- If I were you I would ask him to delete the pictures or videos. Please for your own sake do it. They could come back to bite you in the ass.
Also, don't do it again in the future until you are married, just my humble opinion.
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reader, starstrukkx3 +, writes (16 August 2012):
 In my opinion, as the photos/video contains your body then it's your right. I would try and become a little tougher with him, although of course I don't know how you've been with him already. I'd demand that he delete the photos and show you some respect if he really ever love(d) you. I hope this helps. :-)
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