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reader, Neboraic  +, writes (3 August 2008):
better this than the other way around.
Also he may not have meant "you are unattractive". Maybe he meant that your personality was the thing that made him want you. So there is a chance he finds you attractive.
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reader, dot +, writes (3 August 2008):
dot is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhe said he likes my personality yeah but i wanted him to say other things aswell dint actualy make me feel sexy
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (3 August 2008):
What did you want him to say?
"When I first met you I couldn't stop staring at your massive tits! And then when you said goodbye I discovered you had an ass to match."
If he's just said "everything" then you'd have still been unsatisfied as that sounds like an easy get out clause
He said what he thought was the right answer because "what do you find attractive about me?" is a question that could get him in serious trouble and really has no right answer.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2008): Well he probably doesn't personally know the celebrity that he likes that is why the only thing he can go by is her looks. Whereas with you, he actually knows you and therefore he can say he likes your personality. Maybe if he actually knew the celebrity maybe then he would have said he likes her cause she's nice.
And no, I wouldn't take what he said personally. I think he was just trying to be nice. I'm sure he wouldn't be with you if didn't think you were gorgeous.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2008): He told you what he thought you wanted to hear..
If he said hes attracted to your looks you would have thought he was just horny and shallow and he doesnt see the real you etc..
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