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writes: Well, i was seeing this guy for 10 months and we broke up because we just spent far too much time together so we ended up arguing alot. So i was heartbroken ofcourse, moved on and now i have been seeing this lovely guy for about 3 months now. He's fantastic and everything seems to be going so well.However, my ex has contacted me quite a bit to say sorry and wants to get back together..i'm a bit dubious because of what happened when were dating, but he seems like he's changed. I am in love with the guy i am dating and don't want to lose him, but i am also having thoughts on maybe having another go with my ex..do i choose a future i know or that i don't know?I really don't know what i should do?? help!
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reader, I Dont Lie +, writes (4 August 2006):
 To be honest, I got a feeling you already know what you want deep down in your heart, you just need confirmation from others, which is a wise thing to do. Obviously having a choice is better than having none at all, but then, you run a risk of having to hurt one party, at the very least! Its inevitable when it comes to a love triangle, someone gets hurt. So I say, get your head clear and ask yourself the relevent questions. Do you really love your current? Are you just curious to see how itd work out between you and your ex because there wasnt a proper ending previously? Are you willing to drop it all for your ex? As far as Im concerned, my interpretation of your post seems to lean more towards your current boyfriend, mainly because you seem happy with him. Shouldn;t that be the reason why couples get into a relationship in the first place, to be happy? You think about it.
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reader, trita4 +, writes (4 August 2006):
hi did u say that you love the second man? then stay with him and see how far you go with him. anyone can come apologizing yet in reality when you get back, what happened is exactly what will happen. stick to the one you love but avoid having a lot of time with him to avoid what happened in the first relationship and keep the candle light.
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