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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I am not sure how to tell when a guy is really into me. I started seeing someone who was into me a lot and wanted to spend tons of time with me right off the bat, but now all of a sudden, he doesn't feel like the same guy with that attraction and desire there as before (not absent but just less). I guess I become very guarded after a while, because I don't know how to keep the attraction in the beginning of a new relationship. I've been in several long relationships, but I've also been in relationships where the guy and I start off strong and then he backs off suddenly. I really, really like the guy I'm with, but I feel afraid to put myself out there even though we got off to a great start. I start to look for little things to tell me he's not truly interested, so perhaps I can stay protected? I know this sabotages the relationship's potential. I just get so self-conscious and afraid at the beginning of new relationships. I also tend to play hard to get because I'm nervous. Maybe it would help if I really knew the signs of whether a guy is really into me. Thanks. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2008): Get the book: "he's just not that into you" by Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo
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