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writes:Okay, so I started losing weight about 2 years ago, now I am a gym rat but my boobs are getting smaller, I have gone from 36b to 34a. My sister who's 19 has bigger boobs than me! I'm 25.I got a nice tax return and will be in miami in 3 months,I'm seriously considering getting implants, my questions are: 1)I am starting to get abs (long life fitness goal) and I see all the tiny girls with big boobs and nice stomachs, I want to look like thatShould I?2)I'm concerned about people in general, because I'm afraid they think I'm a whor3 for wanting them?3)do guys like them? I typically wear padded bras, but I think my ex didn't like small boobs, his hands would completely grab my breasts and it was hurtful because I have no boobs, he didn't seem to attracted to butt (though my girlfriends and some guys tell me I have a nice butt, so after my ex and seeing how hard he'd grab in to my non existent boobs made me wonder if he actually wish he could have something to touch).., so do guys like fake boobs???, if the girl has no boobs when she lays down??? I'm sure I look like a boy from the waist up!..., my boobs are tiny... What do guys think of fake? I'f I get fake ones, I'd be looking to go to 34c maybe 36a... I wouldn't want then huge either
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2013): Basically, fake boobs are regular boobs with a piece of plastic shoved in. And even in the high end models that look right, you can still feel the plastic move around as a seperate structure inside. Because that is really what it is, a doctor slices open your skin and puts a plastic bag of silicon inside and then sews it shut again. The bag isn't attacked to anthing, it just sits in the cut open flesh. There is no pocket for it in your body. So... and this is going to get nasty, it just sits in an open wound. Normally, the flesh of your breast is well, attached. Take a piece of steak (breats are totally different flesh type but that doesn't matter for this) and cut deep into creating a "pocket". Put something in it. Sew it shut. Now open it again. Did whatever you put inside it miracously become a part of the steak?No? Well no of course not the steak is dead but silicone doesn't get absorbed by the body. the wound CANNOT heal, it is not like the made cut can EVERY grow totally shut again. The cut in your skin heals, but the hole inside? No skin can grow there to create a pouch for the implant. But your body will try to heal and their are countless ways in which a breast implant can go wrong. It can start to encapsulate with hard tissue. The implant can burst under pressure. It can leak.Oh chances are low but why take the risk for something most guys don't like to touch.Basically breast implants are for girls who wants tits to look at but not touch.Oh and if you get them, at least get really good ones because you don't want hocky pucks on your chest while your on your back and your breast tissue succcumbs to gravity and the silicone doesn't.Just don't do it and if a guy insists, tell him to get a penis enlargement. Do you know that works? They take the penis and ...[FAINTED]
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2013): Hi thank you everyone for the help... I think that you guys are on point. I have always wanted to look perky (since I started losing my chest) I miss those glorious days, hahahaha but it is true, I am doing it for the wrong reasons, truth is that a part of me wants them but he bigger part of my decision is "society" and the females around me... I think I'm going to put that money to a better use Graduate school course :) and strengthen my brains before anything else :) and yeah not working out for 6 weeks would put me into the WORST mood ever, the gym is my "happy pill" hahhaha thank you everyone for your support, comments, concerns, etc
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reader, maverick494 +, writes (19 April 2013):
How long have you been at your current weight? When I first lost weight and got fit, my boobs shrank a lot. When I was 6 months at my goal weight, my boobs started to fill out again and I lost the hollow cheeks and the other stuff that happens when you lose weight fast. Your body needs time to get used to the 'new standard' so it'll take at least half a year or more to balance itself out. I didn't gain weight during that time; my body composition just balanced out again. I think that you should focus on stable physically and wait for the end result before resorting to drastic measures.
Look, implants look fake most of the time, even the well done ones. Then there's the problem they'll need to get replaced every decade. It's playing russian roulette with your body. Plus most guys I know prefer natural over fake. Needing fake boobs to keep your self esteem upright isn't healthy and many guys actually don't respect girls who did it for that reason. Look, do what you're happy with, but from where I'm standing, you're not getting implants for yourself; you're doing it to fit some idiotic society standard. And when you go down that road, I bet the next tax return will be spent on a nose job, or lips, or lipo, etc....
I'm not against plastic surgery if done for the right reasons. Like when someone is disfigured or had to get her breasts removed, etc. Your reason is not a good one and a respectable plastic surgeon will not operate on you.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (19 April 2013):
 Some men like big boobs and do not care if they are fake… most guys like to look at natural looking fake boobs but don’t like to touch them because they feel fake.
In addition, large boobs sag with age and fake ones don’t and they don’t look natural. My husband’s first comment on meeting a friend of mine who had a boob job at age 18 and is now 52 said “nice fake boobs” (to me after he met her, he would not say it to her face) And they are not that big, nor was she wearing anything that was that revealing. I think she looks great.
I have had large breasts (I was a 48DDD before my surgery) and I have PERMANENT grooves in my shoulders from supporting those puppies. After I lost a ton of weight I had a mastopexy which is nothing more than a breast lift. Painful surgery.. went home with drains sticking out of each breast… was then a cute perky 34B (barely a B)
If you were going to go to a small C cup that would look good but it would still feel fake. And you would have pain and discomfort.. now working out for 6 weeks…. You would lose that 6 pack…. Just saying.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2013): Along the same lines happened to me. You do something good for your body, but you get side effects too, and in all the wrong places! I am 46 and I had lost 35 pounds about 5 years ago and am a gym rat myself, but I ended up losing any life to my chest at all. The damage caused my 38C-D to turn into deflated cucumbers and a B-C in a bra...nice visual huh? I just want them back to what they look like in a bra. I am so self contious now, I can't stand it. So, for that reason, I want to have it done, but for me it will have to be a breast lift as well. I have no desire to have a huge chest, just what I had before (I am also almost 5'10" tall so proportion is fine for me.)Do not, I repeat, do not make this decision based on what you think a man would like, or what a man tells you, or other women for that matter. And PLEASE do not try to achieve a look that someone else has (and they may very well not even have it, since just about everything is photoshopped these days!) These are all very wrong reasons to get breast implants!!! You will seriously regret it if you use this line of thinking to make a decision.You do what will make you comfortable. You do what will make you feel great. Go have talk to a plastic surgeon and really, really think about it. Don't rush or make any impulsive decisions you might regret down the road. Do background checks on these doctors and make sure they are reputable. It's nothing to mess around with...you are altering your body. Do your homework. These things are far more important then many of the things you are addressing. What everyone else thinks will mean nothing in the end. You are the one who will have them and will be living with them. Walk around with rice bags in the bra size you think you want and see how they looks and how it makes you feel. And congrats on the weight loss and living a healthy lifestyle, boobs or no boobs! :-)
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2013): Please please PLEASE research the surgery and the complications you will face in the future.
Most women end up developing capsules around the implant and have to have them removed and replaced within 10 years. If the implant becomes encapsulated, it can rupture or appear distorted. It can become physically painful as well.
Do NOT visit a discount surgeon. You want a surgeon who takes pride in his/her work and has clientele that include rich, famous, and models.
You need to decide whether you want regular implants, or implants that go under the muscle. As your body fat percentage goes down, larger implants will become visable and will look awful.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2013): Men are attracted to you when you *feel* sexy in your own body.
If they are serious about you, they'll be attracted to you as a whole not to your individual parts. No man is perfect so you're not expected to tick every box of the perfect woman ideal he has.
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reader, CMMP +, writes (18 April 2013):
Some guys do, some guys don't. I think a safe bet would be implants that look very natural. What size is capable of still looking real on you is probably something a Dr. would have to tell you.
I find obviously fake boobs to be a turn off, but I'm not turned off by fake boobs in general.
Men love boobs. Small ones, big ones and everywhere in between. Bigger ones seem to get more attention, but that's the same with women preferring somewhat muscular men. It doesn't mean they're not attracted to the average Joe.
If you feel like you need to do something to feel better about the way you look then that's your choice, but I don't think it's as big of a deal as women think it is.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (18 April 2013):
I think the thing about cosmetic surgery of any kind, is that you really need to know why you're doing it. I think if you really want to have larger breasts for your own sake, that's one thing. To be worrying about what men will think, or whether people will think you're a whore, is another.
You wrote two lines about why you want larger breasts - you want to look like those other women.
You then wrote eight lines about your ex and what men will think. And that's not a good sign. You shouldn't be trying to work out what men want from you, or your body or whatever. Men will all want different things, large breasts, small breasts, medium breasts, enlarged breasts, real breasts etc. It's not a good idea to be trying to work out what we want, because its each man to his own. Guys won't just sit there and judge you on your breasts. There is, in fact, more to us and that. And any man who is only interested in your breasts isn't worth your time anyway.
The point is, you need to think about why you want to do this. Is it for your sake, as a woman. Or is it for the sake of men who you think will like you afterwards? If it's for yourself, then go for it. If it's for everyone else, don't.
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