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*ver..worried.
writes:Do guys really think better of a girl, who, wont have sex without a condom. A lot of people say that guys really appreciate and that. But in ways it sounds like away to get people into safe sex. Cause i know my boyfriend sometimes will be like "well there's the pull out method" so I know at that moment he is not impressed with it. But do guys really like it better when a girl can say no to unsafe sex?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2010): My boyfriend respects me for wanting to be safe.
I haven't had sex yet, and don't plan on it soon, but he respects that I am still a virgin and he will wait until I am ready.
If someone really cares about you, they'd want you to be safe.
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (15 August 2010):
 As a guy, yeah I'd say girls who actually think about safety are very much appreciated!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2010): You cares what the guy thinks---you should never, ever engaged in unprotected sex EVER! If you go out here and catch a sexually trans. UNCURABLE disea. do you think those guys are going to think highly of you? If a guy can't respect your dec. to want to use protection..DROP HIM.
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reader, baddogbj  +, writes (15 August 2010):
 Pull Out Method - also known as the Abortion Method.
It is not a method of contraception and any boy who tries to tell you that it is is an inexperienced kid.
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reader, Over..worried. +, writes (15 August 2010):
Over..worried. is verified as being by the original poster of the question No a rufuse to to have sex without a condom, I am on , birth control, and it is not 100%.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2010): (I'm 17) About a year ago, I got ill and had to be taken off the pill. I refused to have sex with my long term boyfriend even with a condom because we'd had a couple of incidents in the past where they'd broken and the pill had been our only protection against pregnancy. At the time, he suggested a few times that we use a condom and try the pull-out method but I always refused; we stuck to things like hand-jobs, oral etc. When I went back on the pill, he was said he was glad I'm stuck with what I originally decided because sex was much more pleasurable for both of us without the worry of pregnancy. Guys like girls who know how to take care of their own body and respect themselves; that's why my boyfriend immediately bought condoms as soon as we began discussing having full penetrative sex.
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