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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2011): I can remember most of them, but I remember their hair cut or their height too and I don't think it's important. Not to me certainly. I don't compare them to each other, or to my current partner, it's just irrelevant.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThese are all interesting answers. I guess I don't really remember how all aspects of my exes, and do look more at the whole package. The only reason I asked is that my gf told me recently about two of her exes small penises. Just got me thinking. Thanks for your answers though.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2011): Men compare, women weigh everything together. My GF's ex was huge, and she has said "that's all he had going for him", although the is clever about not directly admitting any preference for his size. But because he was a bit of a lazy lovemaker, didn't tend to her needs well, was unpredictable in the relationship and smelled bad, I'm quite certain she overlooked his penis size long ago. I'm not small, but by no means huge, and I dont worry about it anymore. At one point, it worried me so much I had ED issues. So dont sweat it man...women care about you as a guy. Your cock is only part of that, and to most women, a lesser part than your personality, charm and sense of humor. I'm sure for some women, a nice cock is fondly remembered, just like big breasts are for men. But I'm sure a good lover is remembered more fondly...not saying guys with big dicks arent good lovers. But other things play into it more.I think what bothers me is not knowing for sure HOW MUCH a previous lovers equipment was apreciated. Most women cleverly avoid or disguise this topic.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2011): Dont you ever think hers is much looser/tighter than an ex? I had an ex and for some years didnt realise it was loose untill meeting someone recently. Of course people think like that.
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reader, sammi star +, writes (15 February 2011):
 I don't remember...but then I've never given it any thought. I don't want to think about past lovers when I'm with someone new!
I agree with dirtball, we're much more likely to compare more important parts of the relationship such as if you're treating us worse or better than an ex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2011): it may be a case of how big she is down there aswell. if it aint tight it aint right,
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reader, srhmr  +, writes (15 February 2011):
yeah, the majority of girls most likely remember their ex's penises. i do, but even if my exes were bigger or whatever, i'm still happier with what i have now. even if girls compare what they have now to what they had then, it won't make a difference because they're not with their exes now for a reason. they're happier with who they have now because they're getting treated good as well. to put it simply, if a girl were that hung up over an ex's penis, then they'd still be with them.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2011): do you ever think about how loose or tight your woman's entrance is? of course. my ex was very wide and since realized it's a more intense orgsasm and can feel it more.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2011): Yes. It's a bit inevitable.We might even compare and miss certain aspects of someone we had in our past, but we decide who we want to be with based on the whole package and the quality of the relationship, not the size of their anatomy. To a degree, I expect men to do the same.
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reader, Asian Images  +, writes (15 February 2011):
Dude do u remember ur ex-gf boobs?
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reader, dirtball +, writes (15 February 2011):
 Do you remember your ex's bodies? Do you compare them?
Seriously dude, they may compare, but they are more likely to compare important things, like how you treat them.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2011): Do you remember things about your ex girlfriends' bodies? Of course you do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2011): some may remember it...i dont, and personally i wouldnt want to. i have never compared my bf penis to any of my ex's.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2011): I forgot to add earlier, large penises are probably only extremely useful if you have sex with large farm animals, or like to fantasize about yourself.
For sex with humans, being average size helps a lot, you can accommodate smaller women as well as larger women. I've known women that could hardly tolerate an average size penis, who's cervix was painfully hit by sex in certain positions with just an average size penis. Give them some huge guy, and they are going to have serious pain.
However, defer to the women on here to give you the definitive answer...and remember, some of them may not be "normal" in any case.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2011): I remember them well. I don't make the comparison. It's not very natural or sexy to think of another man's equipment when I have someone else inside of me.
When we're not in the moment however.... Hmmm there could be some thoughts of being thankful if it's better, or "Well, it's not as great as this other one was" if it really isn't that great. Truth be told, I've wished my ex's was different.
The smallest I've ever seen and the biggest, were out of the ordinary and in both cases, I'm always glad I don't have to deal with another like those.
If a partner is not compatible sexually, both parties best search for someone else or else have one hundred percent committment to "for richer or poor, in sickness and in health" there should be an additional phrase of "for bigger or smaller, in deep or not at all".
If either partner doesn't have this level of commitment to the relationship and finding a way to make it work, then both partners are best off with someone else.
I'm thankful to say that my ex and I broke up. Now I can continue searching for the right partner with the right equipment that matches mine.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2011): Yes they do remember them as long as they were sober and of sound mind.
Do they compare them mentally, sure, some do, some don't, takes all kinds in this world.
When I have sex with my wife, I don't think "her breasts are __________ (fill in the blank with any phrase of your choice "not as big" or "bigger than")" or thing about how her vagina feels compared to another woman's.
But, then again, that's just me.
They do compare the entire life experience they have with someone (sex, laughter, friendship, etc) and want to have the best one they can have.
If a woman ever said to me, my wife included, that my "dick is to small (or to large for that matter" or "I'd prefer it be more like ________'s was" in any fashion (bigger, smaller, more curved, straighter, you name it), then I'd find someone else and let the woman know "You are so nice to let me know, I just realized I'm dating the wrong woman and need to find one who can handle what I've got with more respect."
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