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Do girls find muscles attractive?

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Question - (19 June 2010) 11 Answers - (Newest, 21 June 2010)
A male United States age 26-29, *ello!! writes:

do girls find muscles attractive? cuz when ever i go out with a couple of my buddies who work out, i always find girls checking them out, so yeah..

what do you girls find attractive?

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A female reader, maverick494 United States +, writes (21 June 2010):

I have to be honest here.

I like my men to be toned and lean. I draw the line when he can´t look normal in normal clothes anymore. I don't like those veiny, bulging muscles. Muscles need a purpose. Pumping them up like an inflated balloon isn't one of them, in my opinion.

A lot of people here are saying personality rules above all, and that´s great of them. But for me, I don´t want a weakling. I´ve been practising martial arts for 10 years now and I can handle myself pretty well. I'm also quite tall for a girl (5'10) so I´d like to have a guy who is just as tall as me or taller and strong enough to take me on, so to say.

That is not to say I don't value a great personality: I do. But I don't want to 'the man' in the relationship, if you get what I mean.

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A female reader, Elydiese United Kingdom +, writes (20 June 2010):

Toned yes, muscly no, i have a strange phobia of veins and if i see a guy whos worked out too much it makes me feel a little sick but yeh a six pack and pecs and toned arms is not much to ask for lol joke :(

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A female reader, CindyCares Italy +, writes (20 June 2010):

CindyCares agony auntNot all women. In fact I have got the feeling that muscles impress more other men,than women.

Now, a slim and toned body- a swimmer's build, or a fencer's build- that's another story.

But musclemen, with biceps the size of a girl's thigh ?...Thanks but...no thanks.

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A female reader, UnknownGirl United States +, writes (20 June 2010):

Me and most of my friends like the really really skinny guys with abssolutely no muscle. Nice and anorexic looking.

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A female reader, QZ United States +, writes (20 June 2010):

QZ agony auntWell my man is not muscular really (except for his calves because he bikes a lot), and I like him that way. He's just right for me.

And I think if you find a girl who's worth having, she'll love you no matter what.

Also - it's sort of like girls asking, "Do guys like girls with big boobs?" It's a very shallow thing to be looking for in a person (meaning the size of a body part of theirs), and really any girl who only looks for muscular men is probably going to not be the deepest girl of the bunch.

Food for thought. (:

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A female reader, Becca64 United Kingdom +, writes (20 June 2010):

Becca64 agony auntits alla matter of taste, but i have to say i personally hate muscley men (sorry guys :P)

but then aain if i got to know a guy who happened to have muscles it wouldnt be a factor, i jut wouldnt be initiallydrawn to them

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2010):

Girls are all different and sometimes we like muscles and we check them out but for the most part we need other qualities other than just the physical apperance...but do be advised that sometimes thats all a shallow girl needs

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A female reader, person12345 United States +, writes (19 June 2010):

person12345 agony auntNot all girls. I prefer a little definition but no crazy amounts of muscle. I don't like super skinny boys, rather have a little pudge than bony. But that's just me... Every woman has different tastes. Just like I'm sure every guy has different tastes.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2010):

I find nerds attractive.Brains turn me on.Different people.different tastes.:)

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A female reader, jerseylicious16 United States +, writes (19 June 2010):

I find it very attractive. im very tiny and having a guy that has big muscles and is really tall makes me feel protected and safe and like he can handle me like a man should. however, i would not rule out a relationship with someone who did not have a great body. that would be shallow. so if we are speaking in terms of pshyicial attractiveness then i will tell you, yes, i am very into juiceheads lol.

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A female reader, LovePrevails United Kingdom +, writes (19 June 2010):

LovePrevails agony auntMost girls dont really care about mucles, okayy. theyy do get you noticed but just beingg a decent guy helps massively. Justt be interestingg andd funny andd you'll havee loads of girls XD

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