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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I went away on holiday for 11 days, and though we spoke to each other on MSN, he felt distant.He says he still loves me and we're still good together, he's just not interested in sex anymore/at the moment.Is there something wrong with me? Someone else that he might like? Or do all guys go through a stage like this?Please help.
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reader, leanne.od +, writes (21 September 2007):
 now, i'm not a guy but i know that when a guy goes off sex, it's either because he's getting elsewhere or he feels guilty about something.
i don't want to send alarm bells to youbut you've not said you've done anything, no arguements or alike so there has to be a reason behind his distantness.
my suggestion is talking to him, ask him outright to be honest and tell you what's wrong, that way, he's got no excuses down the line as to why he never told you.
of couse he could just have something on his mind, stress tends to prove that sex drive goes downhill if your worried bout things, but a good conversation and direct questions will sort it out.
good luck
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reader, superbunny +, writes (21 September 2007):
 I think it's natural for everyone to be taking a break from sex every now + again.. A bit of breathing time. :]I'm sure there's nothing wrong with you at all - he's bound to feel distant if you're on holiday, he obviously missed you!Hope this helps. :] x
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male
reader, Tommy7  +, writes (21 September 2007):
Most guys don't necessarily go through a stage like this. There can be many reasons for it. Maybe he wants to prove to himself that he likes you for more than the sex. Maybe he has become fearful that you will become pregnant. And, of course, he may have found someone else. Maybe he has decided you are too young. Go slow and don't press the issue until you find out what's going on. And reconsider yourself what you have been doing.
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