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writes:Im 39 just divorced my husband. We've been married for 14 years. I've no regret to divorce him. The problem is I have very high sex drive. I have no sex life for 9 months now and find it hard to bear. I am dating a man at the moment but I dont love him. Should I have sex with him to satisfy my need or wait for someone I really love to do it. Please advise.
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reader, BadAsh6705  +, writes (26 November 2007):
 Go ahead, but don't lead him on! Pay close attention to how he feels and be honest.
If you are still interested in meeting other men, don't commit to any one person.
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (22 November 2007):
 Hi,
you dont have to worry, really. There's no rule suggesting that sex should be between loving couples only.
It will change the bond between you two however, but it is still possible to have a sexual relationship with someone you are not in love with, as long as you enjoy it, you are both consenting adults , go for it.
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reader, chlez83  +, writes (22 November 2007):
If you are so desperate you might as well hire a male hooker,i can give you my number. JUST JOKING!!!!!You really are a grown up woman who's not answerable to almost anyone so follow your heart. If it makes you feel better, fuck the guy but what are you going to do if he becomes too emotionally involved and tells you he loves you? For his sake don't,for your sake do it. You could always try to seduce your ex just for one night of passion if you won't fall for him again. At your age and after what you've been through you would have to confirm if you are ready for another serious commitment which I personally doubt. So let him know that all you want is no-strings-attached sex.All the best.
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reader, angelblueeyes +, writes (22 November 2007):
 HiPersonally i don't see a problem with having sex with this man you are dating even tho you don't love him, i don't believe that you should only have sex with someone if you love them. At the end of the day it's your choice if you feel comfortable doing this then thats up to you!!good luck!
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