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writes:This post has more than one q wrapped in it.I recently had a 2nd date w. this guy.He made a candlelit dinner. there was a wine, dessert and we watched a horror movie,chatted and just hung out. He was a gentleman and I was the one he pretty much put the moves on him lol.We kissed was all and he managed to leave hickeys on me even though I didnt want em - i dont understand the reasong for marking someone. He worried whether or not I liked the food, wine and movie choice and thought I was just being sweet cos I said I did.He made a joke that im prob dating other guys(cos i was fiddling w/ my new phone tryin to fig how to put it on silent - which i explained.He thinks I'm a sweetheart but thinks i may secretly be a naughty girl (he cant understand how someone could be soo nice, enjoy baking cookies and playing video games).He insisted a buncha times that I stay over cos of the alcohol.I went home instead and he called shortly after to make sure I made it home safe and explained he's a worrier, he couldnt sleep w/ out knowin im ok and that a friend of his died cos of drunk driver.(Our first date he lent me his hoodie, he didnt know me and I had it for over a wk..I thought that was sweet). We discussed maybe hanging out in a cpl days but said he wasnt sure cos he was tryin to take a shift at work. I txted that day askin if he got his shift after all and hadnt heard back.Its only been a day but I tend to think negative when I dont hear back from someone the same day..Seems our date went well and seems he genuinely likes me right???Im not sure and how can I stop being negative?.I think some of my negativity comes from my mom who is pretty negative about men. I dont want to be like that. I want to know when someone likes me/see the good signs.I just wanna stop thinking negative.. any opinions on how i can do that.. or the good signs to spot when dating..(sorry for the long post)
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reader, PixieGwen +, writes (15 December 2009):
PixieGwen is verified as being by the original poster of the question thankyou..I just worry soo much/im a lil negative. I'm sure that hes doin his own thing & that he had a good time. Cos who makes sure someone got home okay if they dont know em? he didnt have to call. Thanks for the advice :) i feel a bit better :)
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reader, eelizabethh(:  +, writes (15 December 2009):
 Your date seemed to go well :) Don't worry love, there is probably a good explination for why he didn't reply to your text. Just grab some girls and have a night out. Everything should be fine by tomorrow :)
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