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writes:I have never had a boyfriend and im trying to figure out waits wrong with me am i ugly waits wrong with me i don under stand
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2010): You're still so young. Girls your ages are probably hooking up and you might feel like the "uncool" one. There's no rush in getting a boyfriend. Besides, teen boys are not even worth pursuing.
I'm 18 and I don't expect to get a boyfriend until I'm 21. I'm not in a rush. I'm just focusing on graduating college in three years and starting my career.
You obviously don't have to wait as long as me, but for now, don't even worry about boyfriends.
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reader, Breonhia +, writes (2 November 2010):
 No your not ugly because were beautiful in our own way and i think that at our age right now should NOT be worried about a boyfriend ive had plenty and im only 14 its not the best thing your good right now because if you did have a boyfriend you'll be back on this site in 5 days talking about how to get over a heart break but not all guys but i think school is way more important :}
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2010): hey there i just wanna say that (being in the same age bracket as you) that i feel like i've lost my innocence having been out with loads of guys, they are only trouble at this age, so honestly don't bother, people our age really should only be worried about school, i learned that the hard way, dont waste your time looking for guys to have a short relationship with (they never last i promise) focus on school, best wishes x
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker +, writes (2 November 2010):
 Boyfriends are over-rated. Try studies and a career instead.
At your age, trust me, you're better off without one. They're invariably uncouth and occassionally illiterate people who will expect you to do their homework and eat your food. They get slightly better when you're closer to twenty. Slightly.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2010): I didn't have my first boyfriend until I was 17. And I only felt love when I was 19-20. I doubt that there is anything "wrong" with you. It happens at different times for different people. I am sure it will happen though, you will have a boyfriend. It can take time, but it is not because there is anything wrong with you. :-)
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2010): Yeah chillax; you're 13-15... I'm 21 and have yet to have a 'real' girlfriend. Why add more stress to your life than necessary? Focus on school and getting ahead in life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2010): I was 19 when i had my first boyfriend. Enjoy being young and carefree and dont fall into peer pressure! your time will come! :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2010): I am 23 years old. I had my first boyfriend when I was 21. You're going to be okay. Worry about developing yourself as a person. Learn to love yourself and become the best you that you can be. One day, it will show on the outside, and that's when you'll find someone. Believe me, please. I've often felt just as you do. Besides, boys usually need more time to grow up anyway! ^.^
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (2 November 2010):
 13-15 age range, honey I didn't have my first real boyfriend till I was 16!
I'm sure you're not ugly and I doubt there's a single thing wrong. Just give it some time you're still pretty young, and boys will start to notice you.
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