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Did I completely blow it with him?

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Question - (20 December 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 20 December 2009)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hi everyone. My last day of college was this past tuesday. I graduated with my BA, complete siked I decided to go out for drinks with my friends. Well I didn't eat at all and i got really drunk. There was this guy there that i have had a crush on for two years now well i was completely flirting with him. We even kissed. The next day I woke up feeling super embarrassed because I am NEVER that forward anyways i text him and apologized. He replied saying its ok it happens to everyone and he wants to hang out to see my other side. WELL its going on sunday and i haven't heard from him. I completely blew it. I just wish i didn't feel so dumb.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (20 December 2009):

I shouldn't think so. Try calling him and seeing if he wants to meet up or something. I'm sure he's not that bothered by it all.

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A male reader, LazyGuy Netherlands +, writes (20 December 2009):

LazyGuy agony auntProbably, although the holidays might have gotten in the way.

The logical thing to do would have been to call you for a date on the weekend.

On the other hand, the 3 day rule is not exactly set in stone and as said, the holidays might upset things a bit.

BUT if he was REALLY into you, then he would have called sooner. If he calls now, it is more because you would have to be a fool to ignore an opportunity.

One warning sign is that you contacted him, not him you.

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A male reader, duce00 United States +, writes (20 December 2009):

duce00 agony auntOhh dont sweat it! As long as you didn't do something that leaves you with a permanent reminder of your drunken night of debauchery your just living as you should at this time.

If this one stays or goes its no big deal. Enjoy life!!

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A male reader, RAINORFIRE United States +, writes (20 December 2009):

RAINORFIRE agony auntYou didnt blow it he should call soon hang in there, you could call him and ask him when are you guys gonna hang out.

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