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age
30-35,
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writes:Iam a 20yr old Mother and Wife! Ive been with my husband for 3 years married and the way we met was thru my sister and he actually already had a gf I put thing in the hands of god I didnt know he was already in a relationship!!! Well the female tht he was cheating with me had called my phone tryna get Info on why I was Textin and calling ! Meantime during tht day I found out I was Prgnat with my noe 1year old daughter and she was basically saying alot of things about how he didnt want me,and how he didnt and wasnt gonna take care of the bby i mine as well get an abortion! So time passes and I get an std Still pregnant and I called her job and just asked exactly why she was constantly callin ad sayint stuff to me and to tell her to go get checked out cuz of me having prnatle visits i found out along the line i had Clymedia! she denied even having contact with me or the std ! so weeksands months go by and Im now 6 months pregnant I get a knock at my door and Its a sherif serving me papers sayint tht ive harrassed young lady and that i needed to be seen in court by the date they gave me so I call the chick to ask her why and while the line to her number is ringing I get a call in on call waitn from the health department! Its a female that know the girl thts trying to get me locked up over some nonsence and she says " before its to late a sexual partner of the man you having sex with is hiv positive and i said do u know her she says very well! Im like omg Im pregnant and I mite just have Hiv!!!!! so I proceed with making the call by now im in tears and im nervouse as hell and the first thing i askedwas `do you have hiv she says yes !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I was like if you really wanted me to get away from him why didnt you tell me about this and I would have had moved on she told me I dnt think I should have to tell you anything ! I was Like damn okay lost for word she said to me tht My childs father already knew about it and I even talked to her mom she told me my chance of gettn it were slim to none but now were're in court and shes at the stand sayin I have been Harassing her and thretning her and she didnt have evidence of that so they thru the peace order out not to ong after my husband asked ,e to marry him and I said yes now ive been told alot tht I was dumb for marrying him and I should have never done it but really am I stupid did I make the wrong choice Im so confused we will be married 4 2 years in feb and Im surprised we have been doing a good job at being husband wife mommy and daddy but rreally i wanna know if he married me for me or was it off of GP (general purposes) I love hime and My daughter and I know he loves us know sign of cheating i just want to sure what do you guys think?
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (7 September 2010):
 I concur with Marriedlady.
He married you because he chose to be with you and your baby . If he had not wanted that, he could have bowed out of it and you could not have forced him to be with you.
Be serene.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2010): Honey if in two years he seems happy to be with you, seems to love you and your baby, then just accept that as enough. I think he married you because he cared for you. Not other reason, he certainly could have bowed out if he had so desired.
Cherish what you have and lay your doubts to rest. mal
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