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writes:When my boyfriend woke up this morning, I had mentioned that I had dreamt about him and he asked what happened. I told him he probably wouldn't want to know and he asked why, did I dream about him cheating on me? I told him no and asked why he would say that and he said because I made it sound like a bad dream and that's what he thought of first. Now I'm wondering where that came from. My last boyfriend cheated on me so I tend to overanalyze everything now and I feel like him saying that was due to a guilty conscience or something. He went out for his birthday two nights ago and I didn't hear much from him. I didn't think much of it because it was his birthday and I didn't want to bother him. He usually texts me when he gets home after nights out but he hadn't that night. I came over last night and noticed that my side of the be had pillows on it (I had taken my pillows with me the night before he went out) and I just notice that the bedroom door has a pair of pants hanging around to the outside, kinda like hanging something on the door to let others know not to come in? He said his friends had stopped by his place after the club but now I'm just wondering what happened..if anyone used the bedroom..could it have been him..where his comment about his cheating in my dream came from.. I know this probably sounds stupid and overanalytical but like I said, havi an ex who constantly cheated pretty much turned me into that person.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (8 November 2010):
 I'm with quiet-echo here. I think you're letting your past get the better of you. I'd have asked something similar in that situation. He also likely knows you were cheated on so that would naturally be why he thought that a bad dream that involved him would also involve him cheating. No real leap in logic there.
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