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anonymous
writes:I've been dating him off and on for four years. I peeked at his phone hes flirting with other girls and trying to hire hookers. Why arent I good enough? Why is he so verbally abusive?
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reader, Honeygirl  +, writes (13 May 2011):
 Sorry Hon, this guy is a waste of time and will be the source of lots of heartache.
He has serious issues and it is not your fault.
Time to re-evaulate your relationship - and considering you have written into Dear Cupid, you are already aware there is problems.
You deserve better - move on with your life and leave him to hiring hookers and chatting up other women!
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (13 May 2011):
Trying to hire hookers? Verbally abusive?
Not your problem, and nothing to do with you. It's him. He's bad news, and rather than hang around for more pain and embarrassment, you'd do better to end it and move on. You musn't accept this kind of treatment - he'll just continue to treat you badly, and you deserve more than that.
Also, take some time to yourself and work out why you're allowing yourself to be treated this way. Whatever it is that allows you accept this treatment, you need to change that.
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reader, serenity80 +, writes (13 May 2011):
You guys need to sit down and discuss where your relationship is going. 4 years down the road it's not uncommon for 2 people to become distant. Having a successful relationship is about good communication and sharing common goals in life and in these testing times to work together at improving things.
As for the verbally abusive behaviour.. don't know how serious that is, but in either way, it needs to be brought up in a talk about where your relationship is going so that he can see how inappropriate his behaviour is. Remind him that you don't be verbally abusive to someone you love and care about.
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