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female
age
30-35,
*ezbar
writes: I've known my ex for 4 years now, we met in 2007, were friends with benfits in the end of 2007 after being friends for a year and also in 2008 and sometimes on wards if we didn't have partners but he would always want me over anyone else. so i basically call him a ex. i've been trying to understand why he is doing the things his been doing...which are...stares at me if he sees memakes things right after every fightflirts with mestalks me (not in a creepy way like appears in the same places i do)still has me on facebookif we see each other, we will keep eye contact for a few secondsif im at his work, and he sees me then doesnt, he will look around to try and find me in the peoplehe always looks happy to see megives me warm smiles talks to me softlytells me whats going on with his life and the things he does for his girlfriend, buying her heaps of things and so on...and his been trying to hold my hand if i seem down, like the other week he asked if i smoke alot, i said yeah and he pushed his hand slowly towards mine but i pulled away. the other thing i dont understand too is why he talks about me to every girlfriend his had since and they always seem to break up after a few months. he also says to my boyfriend that he has never loved me and wishes he nevre met me, that life would be eaiser. why is he doing all these things? i need to understand, please help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2011): well according to me it seems that this guy really want to have something different you in termes of love relationships ,i have also realized that you too trying to help him to reach your heart by staying longer with him even though you're acting as a simple ferind such walking hand to hand with him ... I just hoping that you are nor playing a game against him ...
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