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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:i met this guy 2 years ago, when we worked on the same audit firm. I worked there for 4 months only, and i guessed he was attracted on me but after i resigned from that firm, i could say nothing happen. We just went to movie once, lunch once, some calls from him, and emails about the love poem etc.during almost 2 years, he kept on forwarding me email talking about love, but i dont bother since he work as an auditor. Yknow, auditor is difficult to be a good boyfriend to a girl. They work from morning to the next morning, and they also work on the weekend.Currently, we got more intense in term of friendship..he asked me out for lunch, and we had a great time together..and after the lunch, he took me to church and seemed he hope that he could go to the same church with me.2 weeks ago, he was on another death missed deadlines,..yet, he pushed himself to see me for lunch since it was my birthday. He initiated to kiss me after the lunch, and i was thrilled. I like this man a lot, but the thing is ..his time for me is very lack! He even couldn't see me every weekend ..that's because his bloody deadlines and i live about 2 hours from him. We actually work hard to get a new job for him..this really stress me out!One my curiousity..if a man love a girl, doesn he call her or at least text her everyday? is that possible if a man fall in love but didnt have time even just to say hi?i need opinion! sometimes we didnt speak for 3 or 4 days..i usually initiated the text. somtimes, I actually wanted to wait for him to initiate, but i am worried that his works stress him out there. So i dont want to make him depressed. Usually, i send him a text asking if he's ok with his job. no flirting.Please advise me..
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reader, celestial  +, writes (25 August 2009):
He's job seems very demanding. You need to ask him if the money is worth it? Is he more in love with his job than you? Hopefully this is just a phase. And he will have more time for you? Nobody can resist that amount of stress for very long without cracking up. You need to tell him to ease up.
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