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*razycat27
writes:There's this guy who I really like , thing is I fell for him before realizing he was taken.. He never spoke about his gf in group conversations or never hinted he was taken .. I've recently became his friend on fb and we chat sometimes about everything .. Last night we were talking and hes like guess what I'm like what he's like I'm technically single .. I'm unsure what this means!! If someone could help me it would be great .. He also said that he ended up annoyed his gf quite badly, then he's like never mind about that wants done is done and he's not fussed , then he was like right noe I can do what I want when I want who I want :p .. What does this mean ? I'm confused .. He knows I have feelings cos I said before I knew he had a girlfriend and knows I won't make a move if he's in a relationship !! Reply to this Question
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reader, HughHefner'sPlaymate  +, writes (16 June 2011):
 Please don't get involved with this guy unless he's COMPLETELY single. Sounds to me like he and his gf are just going through a rocky times. I'm sure you don't wanna be the "we we're on a break" girl. Best wishes
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reader, llifton  +, writes (16 June 2011):
 technically single means: "i'm technically a douchebag."
whatever the situation is, you don't want to be a part of it, believe me. either she dumped him and he's upset, and just looking for some quick rebound ass and he knows you like him, or they are on a break of some sort, etc. whatever the technicality is, don't put your guard down. cause you'll end up getting burnt in this. i can see it a mile away.
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reader, jonk +, writes (16 June 2011):
I have to agree with the other responses. I think he is being devious too. You sound like a good person and you can do better. I have behaved as that guy is, and he might need to be made aware that how he treats people is disturbing.
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reader, RedAthena +, writes (16 June 2011):
 It means the same as "Technically NOT available".
Best Wishes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2011): It means he wants to use you in the interim until he gets her back or finds another girlfriend so he's looking for a warm body, not a love connection.
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reader, Orbiter +, writes (16 June 2011):
Sounds like he and his gf have just split up and he wants you to be his rebound or they're on a break so he wants to sleep with you while he can before he goes back to her or worse he's just had an argument with his gf, they haven't split up but he's annoyed with her so wants to cheat.
Either way don't do anything soon, wait until everything's settled and you're sure he & his gf really have split up for good and that he's really into you and you're not just his distraction/rebound.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (16 June 2011):
 ASK HIM... what does that mean.... LISTEN to what he says
sounds like he's just working it out with the GF
until it's a clean break I'd be wary
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reader, spinnaker +, writes (16 June 2011):
 Congratulations! you have just earned a spot as someone's break from their relationship. HE will confess and confide in you all the things he should be discussing with his girlfriend. IF he settles things with his girlfriend you will be on the trash heap by the side of the road. You are about to enter a whole lotta drama and unless you enjoy such things, you need to put up some barriers with this guy and keep some distance until he settles issues with his girlfriend.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2011): It means he'd like to sleep with you before getting back together with his gf... He can do... who-ever he wants?? that's what that sounds like to me... Sorry girl..
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