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Article - (23 May 2008) 5 Comments - (Newest, 27 May 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, RHackett writes:

I'm not the most articulate person, so forgive me if this is a bit poor.

When i was fifteen i lost my virginity, to this day i regret it and if i could turn back time i would. Basically it was a really bad experience with a girl that i wasnt even remotely attracted too. The reason i did it was because.......urmm....i suppose that i just wanted to know that i had. I am very ashamed of myself as she was underage like i was at the time, i hate myself for that, but hey, we all make mistakes.

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A male reader, oldfool Australia +, writes (27 May 2008):

oldfool agony auntIf you sat down with a bunch of people and compared notes about how each person lost their virginity, you'd find an amazing variety of stories, from the crappy to the fantastic. There's no single way to lose your virginity. It's a kind of "rite of passage" that many of us are too young too young to appreciate until well after it's over. In future years you'll probably sit back and laugh about it.

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A female reader, jadeybaby United Kingdom +, writes (26 May 2008):

jadeybaby agony auntHi, I lost my virginity on saturday and i am 15 years old. I know how you feel. I deeply regret what I did. Worst of all, I was extremley drunk and didn't have a clue what i was doing. He didn't use a condom and im not on the pill, so im dreading the fact that I could end up pregnent, and i have only met this guy like once.

But i now realise that i have learnt from this experience, and i am sure you have, just be greatful that you came through your experience without getting any diseases or getting the girl pregnent.

You will learn to move on, and you wont make this mistake again. Next time wait until you really like a girl, you will enjoy it more.

I hope this helps you hunni.

Take care

xxx

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A male reader, jj75 United Kingdom +, writes (26 May 2008):

we all learn by our mistakes. i lost mine at 13 to my mates 15yr old sister but i wouldnt say i regret it. its a learning curve.

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A female reader, Emaz help United Kingdom +, writes (23 May 2008):

Emaz help agony auntIlost mine at 15 too

I slightely regret it as it was with someone who i've only met once and has slept with more people that you could count on both hands and feet!

But it doesn't really bother me, you'll learn to move on and although you'll never forget it, you will move on and have other experoences with other girls that you WONT regret

Just think before you do anything next time

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (23 May 2008):

DoubleM agony auntNot a big deal. We all learn as we grow. Move on with your life, do no harm and keep learning.

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