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*nezka89
writes:There’s this guy I like and we tend to flirt a lot when we’re around each other. Mainly playful flirt. However he has never explicitly mentioned a gf. And on his cel-phone he has a picture of a random sexy girl (a body builder girl). He even once told me he likes bodybuilder type girls which I’m not but it doesn’t bother me. My questions is if this could mean he doesn’t have a gf? I don’t dare ask right away in case he asks me why I’m so curious. I meando guys with gfs put pictures of nude girls on their cel phones?
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reader, Anezka89 +, writes (29 March 2018):
Anezka89 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi guys! Thank you very much for your answers so far. I really appreciate them.HoneyPie: Yes this is the guy from the gym. I have checked his FB and he has no status :S. He never mentions a gf even though I have casually said things like "Oh your gf must be happy with..." or "I'm sure your gf appreciates..." just depends on what we're talking about. And he never says "oh yes..." nothing.This one isn't really nude she's just in a bikini and has a bodybuilder body, which is ok by me, I'm not jealous or anything. I mean it's quite admirable how dedicated some people can be and the results they get, it's not easy. But that's besides the point lol. I'm just wondering, well if he has a gf why hasn't he mentioned her (like other trainers have) or have a pic on his cel (like the other trainer). I mean I guess it's a give away that he doesn't like me enough since he won't text me outside. But I don't know if it's 'cause he doesn't have a gf, or maybe doesn't want a relationship. I'm too shy to ask. But I guess like WiseOwlE Suggests I could slide it with a question as he suggested. And yes he is flirty but more like playful flirty, as I mentioned he tickles me and teases me and that's about it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2018): I'd play coy and ask..." just curious, is your girlfriend a bodybuilder?" He didn't volunteer the information; so you can playfully ask. You'll kill two birds with one stone. You'll find-out if he's taken; and you'll break the ice. You'll also determine if he's fixated on a "type."
Most people these days keep pics of all sorts of stuff on our phones. It's usually an interest, someone they admire, or a celebrity.
Sometimes people forget to change their status on Facebook or keep old pics in-place out of sentiment. You still have to ask.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (28 March 2018):
 Some guys DO put nude girls on their phone even if they have a GF and some WOMEN have pictures of men that AREN'T their partner (like actors, sport stars, fictitious characters etc.) REGARDLESS of they "status" of single or in a relationship.
So you CAN NOT go by what he has on his phone.
Is this the guy from the gym? If so... maybe not so strange he has a "super-fit" girl on there. And not so strange if he is flirting.
If you know his first/last name you could look him up on Facebook/Instagram and see. Most people DO put in social media if they have a partner.
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